Bitter Sweet
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maia....this is pretty "normal" for most. I think we always have a bittersweet n ostalgia when one chapter of life is coming to a close...before another one opens...
It could be worse....It could have been your 27th year anniversary!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This, too, shall pass....
dandylion
It could be worse....It could have been your 27th year anniversary!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This, too, shall pass....
dandylion
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I think we have to grieve our hopes. And I think that's totally normal. Just because you didn't want to stay married to him doesn't mean you aren't allowed to grieve your hopes and dreams.
I did that for years before divorcing, so once the divorce became final, I felt nothing.
I did that for years before divorcing, so once the divorce became final, I felt nothing.
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Join Date: Mar 2013
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Yes, I would like to echo what lillamy said (starting to feel like your shadow here today, lillamy, or your evil twin or something!). I liked this article on the topic of healing the death of a dream. I hope you find some help in it.
First part: http://www.cottonwooddetucson.com/pd...ner-112011.pdf
Second part: http://www.cottonwooddetucson.com/pd...ner-112011.pdf
First part: http://www.cottonwooddetucson.com/pd...ner-112011.pdf
Second part: http://www.cottonwooddetucson.com/pd...ner-112011.pdf
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