More than my fair share of tough times

[BeeBee]

After being shouted at and belittled by my boss for the first three days on my new job, I quit. More stress, more anger, more fear.

My beloved kitty Ebony who is 18 yrs old was diagnosed with cancer this week. Even more stress, even more anger, even more fear.

Where does it end for me and why do my eating habits have to revolve around my stress levels. Why? How in the world do I ever get a separation between the two so that I can eat normally, healthy, and lose weight? Sometimes I just feel like I'm losing my mind.

[Pony]

{{{{BeeBee}}}} I am sorry that you are having to go through these tough things all at once. I have been at that -losing my mind - place many times.... it will pass. It is am overwhelmed feeling that comes on when too many things hit us at one time..not knowing where to turn next and where to start in the process of sorting it out.

Just get those feeling out ... here, or on paper, or screem at your pillow, but keeping talking. It will work it's-self out.

I am sorry to here about your kitty. I had to go that with a cat I had in my teens and ended up making the decision to put him to sleep. Couldn't afford to do the treatment with no guarrentee that he would recover.

Good luck and you will be in my thoughts..... as always.

[kelliegirl]

BeeBee, I am sorry to hear about your beloved kitty. (((hugs)))

I can totally relate to what you're saying. I am struggling with stress eating as well. Getting to the root of what is driving the behavior is hard. Keep soul searching and it will come to you.

[Neagrm]

Stress and eating, ahg, I can certainly relate. You're not alone in this. Sorry to hear about the job probs and hope another opportunity opens up soon for you.
Nea

[ladyamalthea]

*hugs*

I know how hard it is to have a sick cat. My heart goes out to you on that one.

I don't blame you for not tolerating a negative work situation.

Just keep your head up! Things will come together!

And I know all about stress eating- I do the same thing.

*hugs*

[TryingisDying]

Originally Posted by BeeBee

After being shouted at and belittled by my boss for the first three days on my new job, I quit. More stress, more anger, more fear.

My beloved kitty Ebony who is 18 yrs old was diagnosed with cancer this week. Even more stress, even more anger, even more fear.

Where does it end for me and why do my eating habits have to revolve around my stress levels. Why? How in the world do I ever get a separation between the two so that I can eat normally, healthy, and lose weight? Sometimes I just feel like I'm losing my mind.

I can so relate to the last part of your post..I was going to highlight it and I can never use the color button for some reason on here......(((HUGS)) hang in there!