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dixielove · 03-02-2005, 11:24 AM

Last night, the guy I have been in love with for 4 years told him that he wasn't in love with me. The pain in my heart is so overwhelming and everything that I've tried to do hasn't help the hurt at all. I understand and respect his feelings, but I'm a bit confused too.

He always gets so jealous when I'm talking to a guy and always wants to know the details. In the past few months, he has done/said many things that indicated that he had feelings for me. I wasn't the only one to see this and others even said he is expressing interest.

When we talked, he said his main reasons for not dating me are the friendship we have and my ex is a friend of his. He said he that he didn't want to risk our friendship for a relationship.

I've been praying for God's will to be done in this situation. Does this mean that there is no chance of anything ever growing between us? Could time change things? He is about to leave and I won't see him for a long time. I will continue to pray and be patient. Please pray for me also. My heart is in so much pain as I really love him.

Please pray for me.

Dixie

goatfarmergal · 03-02-2005, 11:46 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. I will be in prayer for you today. God bless you as you walk through this time of pain.

I have been walking through a similiar valley for the past six months, so I can relate to your confusion and heartbreak.

I have just tried to cling to Jesus through the storm of emotions and all of the questions in my mind. I can't say that I understand, but He has been there with me through it all with loving encouragement. Glory be to the Lord on high!

Psalm 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

03-02-2005, 11:58 AM

Dixie,

I will be praying for you. I wish there was something I could say to make it feel better. Put your future in God's hands. He really does know just what's best for you. I can look back on my life and see that he made some good decisions for me even though it caused me great pain.

Hugs,
MG

Blessed · 03-02-2005, 12:43 PM

My ex after 20 years together, rejected me and my love for him...I let God love me through the pain and i found peace in knowing that he will never Stop loving me and never leave me . He has been the constant in my life, the one that i can always be sure of . I am so grateful! Each day my relationship with him grows. Everything in life is always changing. Our God is the same yesterday,today, and tomorrow, and he loves us so very much. I am engaged now and very happy. I have been blessed with a man that adores me. Believe you deserve the best and the best will come...

Time2Surrender · 03-02-2005, 12:46 PM

Very nice post Blessed.

CAPTAINZING2000 · 03-04-2005, 11:41 PM

Not that this will help now but, it takes a bad love to make you truely grateful for a good love.

JUST PRAY AND DO THE NEXT RIGHT THING. GOD KNOWS YOUR NEEDS.

CHRIS

03-02-2005, 11:24 AM	#1 (permalink)
dixielove Paused Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Where Am I? Posts: 247	Please pray for me Last night, the guy I have been in love with for 4 years told him that he wasn't in love with me. The pain in my heart is so overwhelming and everything that I've tried to do hasn't help the hurt at all. I understand and respect his feelings, but I'm a bit confused too. He always gets so jealous when I'm talking to a guy and always wants to know the details. In the past few months, he has done/said many things that indicated that he had feelings for me. I wasn't the only one to see this and others even said he is expressing interest. When we talked, he said his main reasons for not dating me are the friendship we have and my ex is a friend of his. He said he that he didn't want to risk our friendship for a relationship. I've been praying for God's will to be done in this situation. Does this mean that there is no chance of anything ever growing between us? Could time change things? He is about to leave and I won't see him for a long time. I will continue to pray and be patient. Please pray for me also. My heart is in so much pain as I really love him. Please pray for me. Dixie

03-02-2005, 12:43 PM	#4 (permalink)
Blessed Grateful For His Love... Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: scottsdale arizona Posts: 60	My ex after 20 years together, rejected me and my love for him...I let God love me through the pain and i found peace in knowing that he will never Stop loving me and never leave me . He has been the constant in my life, the one that i can always be sure of . I am so grateful! Each day my relationship with him grows. Everything in life is always changing. Our God is the same yesterday,today, and tomorrow, and he loves us so very much. I am engaged now and very happy. I have been blessed with a man that adores me. Believe you deserve the best and the best will come... __________________ I Surrender... I Believe... I Put my Trust in you... I Am Higher Powered!!!

03-04-2005, 11:41 PM	#6 (permalink)
CAPTAINZING2000 Psalm 118:24 Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: ILLINOIS Posts: 9,452 Blog Entries: 1	Not that this will help now but, it takes a bad love to make you truely grateful for a good love. JUST PRAY AND DO THE NEXT RIGHT THING. GOD KNOWS YOUR NEEDS. CHRIS __________________ LIFE IS GOD'S GIFT TO YOU WHAT YOU DO WITH YOUR LIFE IS YOUR GIFT TO GOD J - Jesus first O - Others next Y - Yourself last John 14:6

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03-02-2005, 11:46 AM	#2 (permalink)
goatfarmergal Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: in His grace Posts: 24	I am so sorry for your loss. I will be in prayer for you today. God bless you as you walk through this time of pain. I have been walking through a similiar valley for the past six months, so I can relate to your confusion and heartbreak. I have just tried to cling to Jesus through the storm of emotions and all of the questions in my mind. I can't say that I understand, but He has been there with me through it all with loving encouragement. Glory be to the Lord on high! Psalm 147:3 He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.

03-02-2005, 11:58 AM	#3 (permalink)
Morning Glory Guest Posts: n/a	Dixie, I will be praying for you. I wish there was something I could say to make it feel better. Put your future in God's hands. He really does know just what's best for you. I can look back on my life and see that he made some good decisions for me even though it caused me great pain. Hugs, MG

03-02-2005, 12:46 PM	#5 (permalink)
Time2Surrender Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Washington State Posts: 7,263 Blog Entries: 7	Very nice post Blessed.

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