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Old 10-10-2008, 02:48 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Prayers for My Family

All of my uncles have passed. Except my Uncle B. He and Aunt J lived

out here in California for several years while I was growing up, and I

became close. They moved away a long time ago, and Uncle B came

down with Altzheimer's a few years ago. It has progressed to the

point where he can no longer feed himself.

My brother, who lives near them in Mo., was going to the hospice every other

day to help my aunt feed my uncle and just "be" with him.

But, my brother is here, visiting with us now.

We just received word this afternoon that Uncle B cannot swallow

food. So, to abide by his wishes when he was of sound mind,

hospice staff as of now are no longer feeding him.

My brother is very upset, and wishes he were there.

We feel so for our aunt. This man is the love of her life.

Both, godly Christians who have always served the Lord.

We are all so very sad.

Please pray, especially for strength and comfort for my dear

Aunt J during the next few days...and my Uncle B as he gets

ready to go home, that his suffering is minimal.


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Old 10-10-2008, 02:55 AM   #2 (permalink)
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That sounds like a very difficult way to go. It is the worst to watch someone fade. I saw my Dad go through cancer.

I will be praying for you and your family. For God's mercy and amazing grace to take over the situation.
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Old 10-10-2008, 06:12 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Prayers coming your way for all involved...
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Old 10-10-2008, 06:57 AM   #4 (permalink)
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(((IO)))

Prayers coming for you and your family. If it makes you feel any better, when I was a nurse, we had several patients request not to be fed, as it would only prolong their death. The physical discomfort is very minimal, and only lasts for a day or so, then the body (or God?) takes the discomfort away. I would not have believed it if I hadn't seen it with my own eyes.

I don't know exactly what happens, but I know these people were ready to accept their fate, and they had very peaceful deaths.

Hugs and prayers!

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Prayers being sent up for uncle B and all others involved.
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Old 10-10-2008, 07:34 AM   #6 (permalink)
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Heavenly Father, we pray as uncle B is in the hospital. We pray that Thy will be done, whether that be healing him, or taking him home.
Please comfort the family, especially Aunt J, and IQ's brother in this time of such sorrow...in Jesus name amen.

May God hold you all in His loving care IQ

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Old 10-10-2008, 09:09 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Prayers for a peaceful 'going home' for your dear uncle; and for your aunt to find the comfort & strength she needs.
Prayers for you, IO...and the rest of your family too.
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sending prayers of peace, strength, comfort , and understanding for your family, ..........
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Old 10-10-2008, 12:07 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Precious SR family...

You are so dear to me. Thank you, thank you for the prayers and words.

And thank you Amy, for the special insight. My daughter, an RN, told me

same thing...

They lost their only child, my cousin T..to cancer a year ago. If my aunt

were not a Christian, I do not think she could bear this now.

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"Father, I hold this man and those who love him, up to you and place them in your loving hands. I know your plan for him and all involved will be fulfilled in love and mercy. Amen"
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Thank you Jadmack...
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(((IO)))

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your blessed mother during this difficult time.

I hope that your father will meet up with my mom and dad; they will send their blessings down to us.
May your dear mother know that he goes with G*D.
And may you all accept this fate with grace.

Shalom, my friend, Shalom!
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Prayers that the Lord's peace, comfort and strength be with you and all your family during the days ahead as you await more news. May your uncle's suffering be minimal as possible.
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Thanks Ray..

He must be strong. Aunt says he is beginning to have trouble breathing a

bit though. I hope it is fast now. But it is in God's time, I know.
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My uncle passed last night...Aunt J had just left the hospice to go home

and rest. Thursday is the funeral..would have been their 60th anniversary.

My first thought was.."He is home." He is with God..with my Daddy..and

their brothers and sister...and Jesus!

But please pray for my dear Aunt...this will hard for her now.

Thanks.
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Thank you all that prayed during this time...
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Sorry for your family loss. I will def. pray for all of you. God speed..
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Thanks bailey.

I am awed at the love and support of my SR family.
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(((IO)))

Huge prayers going to you and your aunt. I am not surprised that he died after she left. No matter how far the person is gone, I think they still try to do what's best for the people that love them and he probably didn't want her there when he went home. It always amazed me how people could show their love until their last breath.

Hugs and prayers!

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Thanks Amy..

Hugs back to you, and prayers for your continued healing and safety.
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10, You are always on my prayer list, but an extra portion for you and your Aunt, for strength and courage, God bless you both.
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I'm praying for your Aunt and the whole family. ((((IO)))))

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and rest.
I find this amazing.... As Aunt J went home to rest, so did he. Our God is Awesome.

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My Dear IO Storm, I am very sorry I got in late reading your thread. I will be praying for your dear aunt, your brother, and you. Your Uncle B is with Our Dear Lord. I was so thankful to read that once he could not swallow he passed quickly. I know The Lord was waiting to welcome him & I am sure he is with his other loved ones that have gone home before him.
Love & Prayers,
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