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Old 05-01-2007, 07:42 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Sort of an emrgency prayer request

My 13 niece(almost 14) and my daughter has been fidghting..The reason they are fighting is because I told my brother that his daughter was at a party with boys. Well, my niece thinks my daughter told her dad..

Right now this niece is at my mobile-home park. She is tried to start a fight with my daughter. Then she took off with some kids..She went over to another kids house
where they are going to party...I have an idea where she is at..I called my brother and told him..I am not sure if he will do anything.

1)Should I go get her myself? 2) She has a restraining order from coming into this mobile home park because of fighting with kids(not ny daughter)..If the manager sees her..She will be arrested. Should I just stay out of it and if she gets arrested
that is my brother and his daughter's business..

Please pray for this almost 14 yr. girl..She has been severly physically and emotionaly abused by her mom all of her life..She has had a very rough life. Plus, at the age of 12 she was forced to have an ab*rti*n..

I want to add that this girl has been into drugs and alcohol simce she was about 10 or 11 yrs. old..She has been shooting up for about 6 months..My brother will not listen to a word I have to say about this..
He prefers to keep thinking that his little girl is an angel and she has
no problem..I love this child very much..However,that does not blind me to what she has been doing. By the way this child would get high with her mom..Yet, my brother has chosen to look the other way..He still let his ex.wife take care of their daughter etc..

Right now I am so worried and scared for this child..She really means a lot to me..

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I will pray right now. In Alanon I have learned not to interfere in other's choices.
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If the manager sees her..She will be arrested. Should I just stay out of it and if she gets arrested
that is my brother and his daughter's business..
Yes, it is -their- business. I have learned that I have enough problems of my own to deal with and do not need to add more stress over things that aren't 'mine' to be involved in.

It's called letting go and letting God. God doesn't need my help to take care of things and maybe your niece getting caught could be the best thing to happen to her as she is so out of control.

You can't control what she does and rescuing her will only enable her to continue to make bad choices.

Prayers are being said- for things to turn out as they should.
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