Is this weird or just me - Part II

[Aristo]

Part II - another story about my Ex that happened today.

She called me up to talk about moving her stuff out - which was hard for me as it kinda signifies final closure. I reluctantly offered to help her move and use my car to move her stuff. Anyway we worked something out.

Then 30 mins later she rings me up and asks me for the name of my friends father so she can talk to him about how it would be to buy a house in the next state where he lives.

I'm not over my Ex
She keeps ringing me - think she still cares to some extent
She moved out - (her decision)
Her stuff is still here although I have asked her to move it out and I have been VERY patient about that.
Now she rings me and want advice about moving away.

I told her that I can't help her - It was too hard for me - and all the reasons why . She proceeded to justify me all the reasons why she did what she did - Not once did she acknoweldge that she could see how it affected me.

I'm a bit mad today and I need to learn how to let go ! ! ! ahhhh !



Glad that I am still sober though ! :-)

[Lollipop]

TIME my friend, letting go is hard hard thing but time does help and you need to allow yourself that. Also, IMHO, she wants to move on yet still wants you to be there for her, I agree, she doesnt seem to understand the impact on you. Do what you need to do for YOU!!!!!

Love Liss