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Old 04-22-2006, 03:28 AM   #1 (permalink)
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it takes a long time to grow an old friend...i love you Ang....

this is the tuest thing i have ever read or ever heard......

True friends learn to love eachother by accepting them just the way they are, they are there for them they try so hard to make them feel good when they are down, sometimes they mess up and just say the wrong thing!!!

the thing is it takes such a long tome to get to know people, what makes them tick , likes and dislikes, beliefs fears worries loves and joys.....

when you have a tiff or a falling out they try adn make it up by communicating with eachother and clearing things up they clear up the mess together...they dont run away.....


this is what my friend ships are based on....truth, understanding open mindedness, trust and love....



ang I love you like I would love a sister...you adn me kid are like two peas in a pod...im astounded at how I feel about many of the peopl on here....it takes my breath away sometimes to think that some of you really like me for who i am...

i always had trust issues with women, it stems back to when i loved step mothers with all my might from the core of my being and then they truned around and stabbed me in the heart, they may have well just killed me...becaue the pain of that lives with me even today......

over the years i havelearned to trust agin, to be acceppting and to be open...if its at the expense of being hurt then so be it...this is how you find out who your true freinds are!!!!!


To all you ladies out there who have sent me PM's and written such lovely stuff about me I am truley knowcked out....I cannot believe you really love me for who i am


Ang it take s a long time to grow and old freind....lets grow old together kid......I LOVE YOU........bottom line no BS....I love you and I love allthe other fabulous people on here.........


it takes a long time to grow an old freind.......


Thankyou....

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Old 04-22-2006, 05:24 AM   #2 (permalink)
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we love ya because....well.....you're PURRDY...and i wouldn't have you any other way!
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Old 04-22-2006, 06:00 AM   #3 (permalink)
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oh my heart is singing!!! I am so happy to read this this morning!!!!!!

Love ya girl...................
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Old 04-22-2006, 06:07 AM   #4 (permalink)
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I think this will put a smile on a lot of faces today - one in particular.
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Old 04-22-2006, 06:39 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I have the same issues with trust. I guess that's why I am so drawn to you. When we talked yesterday and said something about two peas in a pod, well that took my breath away. Because like I said, I had just thought the same thing only a few minutes before.

It is amazing how much I love and trust the women on these boards. I mean honestly trust them with my life.

I've shared more of my life and secrets with you than anyone ever in my entire life. And it was killing me inside. Thought 6:00 p.m. was never going to come.

I'm am so glad that we got it sorted out.

I love you my sister, my friend. I do. You will never know how much.

xoxoxoxoxo

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Old 04-22-2006, 06:50 AM   #6 (permalink)
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you guys are making me cry!!!!

Awesome........this is awesome..........the power of love and undestanding....and allowing myself to trust again?
It is one of THE most painful things I have ever done....but look at what beauty & trust brings us!

LOve you guys..............you rock!!

healing a friendship.........a miracle to watch and be a part of...............

{{{{{{Love you my Soul Sisters}}}}}}}}
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Old 04-22-2006, 06:58 AM   #7 (permalink)
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Ohhhhhh "Soul Sisters". I like that!!!!!!

I love you dearly Tammie, I do.

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Old 04-22-2006, 07:04 AM   #8 (permalink)
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and I love you too................from the bottom of my heart...I LOVE you guys......unconditionally!


Am about to go and spend the day with my kiddo's..........don't quite know what we're doing.but we're going to do it together..........

Hope all have a pleasant weekend...hey Ang....talk about Karma! IT's raining here today! It came back!! Man..........I asked God to keep it dry the entire weekend.........

maybe I'll go out and sing & dance in the rain!
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Old 04-22-2006, 07:20 AM   #9 (permalink)
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I have the same issues with trust. I guess that's why I am so drawn to you. When we talked yesterday and said something about two peas in a pod, well that took my breath away. Because like I said, I had just thought the same thing only a few minutes before.

It is amazing how much I love and trust the women on these boards. I mean honestly trust them with my life.

I've shared more of my life and secrets with you than anyone ever in my entire life. And it was killing me inside. Thought 6:00 p.m. was never going to come.

I'm am so glad that we got it sorted out.

I love you my sister, my friend. I do. You will never know how much.

xoxoxoxoxo

Ang

you are one of the most beautiful, loving and funny, honest people I have ever ever had the privelledge to meet...(and I want your accent..you blow me away kiddo)

I trust you and i love you and theres nothing you can say to me that i have not felt heard or aknowldedged about myself....two peas in a pod...yes ...indeed....seperatted at birth.....

love you.....xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx





Now will you please please do something about this thing!!!!
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Old 04-22-2006, 07:35 AM   #10 (permalink)
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I know, let's trade accents. We could.
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Old 04-22-2006, 07:52 AM   #11 (permalink)
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it was so funny talking D last night he sounds like john Lennon!!!!!!!!!! dont tell him that!!!!!!

a great man you have there Ang......


and as for Nathan, he has a sort of mixed accent doent he...no American but not English eithre


i guess these are the things that make us unique!


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i love the american accent, that southern one of yours is just awesome.......
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Old 04-22-2006, 07:53 AM   #12 (permalink)
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fluff fluffety fluff fluf fluffety fluff....you have made me feel so good today!!!!!
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Old 04-22-2006, 07:59 AM   #13 (permalink)
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it was so funny talking D last night he sounds like john Lennon!!!!!!!!!! dont tell him that!!!!!!

a great man you have there Ang......


and as for Nathan, he has a sort of mixed accent doent he...no American but not English eithre


i guess these are the things that make us unique!


love you all.....





i love the american accent, that southern one of yours is just awesome.......






I won't tell him. But he would LOVE it!!!!!!!!

Nathan has a mixture, he does. Whenever he comes back from England, he has a huge British accent. It is so cute. But it wears off after a couple of weeks. But he is funny. He will say stuff like his dad says it and I love it. Like, I have to go "clean my teeth". Where as I say, "brush my teeth".

i love it.



D loved you. I knew he would. What's not to love. E probably thinks I am a big fruitcake.
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and I love you too................from the bottom of my heart...I LOVE you guys......unconditionally!


Am about to go and spend the day with my kiddo's..........don't quite know what we're doing.but we're going to do it together..........

Hope all have a pleasant weekend...hey Ang....talk about Karma! IT's raining here today! It came back!! Man..........I asked God to keep it dry the entire weekend.........

maybe I'll go out and sing & dance in the rain!
Whatever you do, take pics and post them later!

Go to the zoo. I love to go to the zoo in the rain. But, I'm weird, what can I say?
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I won't tell him. But he would LOVE it!!!!!!!!

Nathan has a mixture, he does. Whenever he comes back from England, he has a huge British accent. It is so cute. But it wears off after a couple of weeks. But he is funny. He will say stuff like his dad says it and I love it. Like, I have to go "clean my teeth". Where as I say, "brush my teeth".

i love it.



D loved you. I knew he would. What's not to love. E probably thinks I am a big fruitcake.

not at all!!!! he was really sweet about it last night...we really are blessed to have such lovely kind and loving men in our lives.....so we need to get our arses into shape and treat them like kings...our families are the bestest...your kids and my kids too...we really ahve to get it together!!!
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Old 04-22-2006, 08:07 AM   #16 (permalink)
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I agree. Any suggestions?
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Old 04-22-2006, 08:11 AM   #17 (permalink)
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im thinking...like i said ....a book...i think a book is order....using everyones perspective on their life...funny stuff....most comedy is based on tredgedy and when you sit back and look at the absurdeites of life its hilarious!!!!
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Old 04-22-2006, 08:16 AM   #18 (permalink)
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Well, I love to write and to edit. So, sounds like a winner to me. Now, we just have to "wrangle" up GG and get this thing started.

We need a title.........


Hmmmmmm.......
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Old 04-22-2006, 02:21 PM   #19 (permalink)
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how about ....'life......bollocks or reality?'
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Old 04-22-2006, 02:22 PM   #20 (permalink)
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i bet that gets pulled.....bugger , my threads keep gettting pulled ..no wonder i look so tatty these days with all these pulled threads....
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Old 04-22-2006, 02:44 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Why would it get pulled you silly toad????

I'm still trying to think of titles.

Life Sucks and Then You Get Sober?

The Grit and the Goblin

True Confessions from Lunatics at SR

A Bunch of Ex Drunks and Addicts Talking About Life


just thinking out loud here.
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Old 04-22-2006, 03:02 PM   #22 (permalink)
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yeah was thinking of basing it on life in the cafe forum......we need lots more input....


well weve covered alot havent we!


yes the sober lunatics are taking over the SR cafe......
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Old 04-23-2006, 08:52 AM   #23 (permalink)
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*passes purrdy a crochet hook so she can fix her threads*

On second thought...tatters add character!!! Naw, let 'em get pulled...

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Old 04-23-2006, 01:02 PM   #24 (permalink)
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sitting here pulling my threads back thanks kierra......


im serious...im going to do more research on this!.....

anyone know how to crochet?
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Old 04-23-2006, 02:45 PM   #25 (permalink)