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Tomorrow when he comes home I am telling him to go to counselling or we cannot go on like this...........period.
__________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~ |
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I am NOT going to go backwards emotionally.....I am doing so good!! driving again.leaving the house.............my sobriety...........I am going to keep moving forward...with or without him. I want it to work out, I really do.........but I have to be sane and live in resepct and safe environment also....especially my kids deserve that!
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Yep, I was in that same place Tam, when I finally left my AEXH, my son was 4 and saw him stab me the first and only time, then I left. Unfortunately , I used the booze to cope, I had absolutely NO self esteem then, ansd felt lower than a snakes belly Counselling sounds OK but I guess it takes 2 . You will know what is the right step when the time comes tam, but dont let it erode ya confidence, you have fought too hard to regain it HUGX Lee
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oh Lee!! mY dear!!! GOD BLESS YOU..........YOU ARE SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO ME...thank you for always being here for me. Thank you.....I know I have to take action..I know...I am just still confused.......rolling along with my recovery.....telling myself it's okay.....I deserve this..I WAS an addict.yada yada blah blah blah.............. (((((((((((hugs)))))))))))
__________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~ |
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I am feeling better......thanks all of you for being so kind and supportive. I am going to go on to bed, get some rest and try and work on this in the morning....I got myself too overwhelmed looking at it all at once and alowing myself to be hurt and controlled by HIS mood..........It will all work out.........for some crazy reason I think all this trouble is a unbelievable blessing...because I am being forced to look at things and make improvements..........if there is no crisis sometimes we just don't chnage.......so....it's gonna be alright no matter what. Gotta get some rest though..........so tired. Everybody have a good nights sleep now.............luv ya all......... xoxoxxoxoxoxoxoxo & more xoxoxoxoxoxoxox nitey nite!
__________________ Many Hugs and Hope too, Tammie "Think of all the beauty still left around you and BE HAPPY." ~Anne Frank~ "Things do not change, WE change." ~Henry David Thoreau~ |
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