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Old 10-14-2007, 02:58 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Ok, to continue my tribute to aging female rockers....Here's Patti Smith...lookin great at 60 yrs.!!

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wished i look like that at 60!!!
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Old 10-14-2007, 03:13 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Old 10-14-2007, 03:16 PM   #5 (permalink)
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i hear ya; it's cold n raining here; even my little doggies didn't want to go outside. hehehehe
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Old 10-14-2007, 03:18 PM   #6 (permalink)
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wished i look like that at 60!!!
I've got to admit the photo is a little flattering...but not that much...i went to see her in concert 5 yrs. ago and had her sign a book of her poetry that I had since i was 15....so i saw her up close and she looked great! Plus she wears no makeup!

the concert was one of the best i ever went to, too.

I'm bored today, too....I should be doing housework and homework....
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I'm bored today, too....I should be doing housework and homework....
how's school coming along?????
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Oh it's coming along fine! i have a class called "Sociology of deviance". We watched an interesting documentary called "Devil's Playground". It was about the Amish-about how when Amish kids turn 16 they have this thing called "rumspringa".

they get to go and do whatever they want including alcohol, drugs and sex, until they decide whether or not to join the Amish church or go out into the world...I had no idea!

they have no restricions...no curfew...they have HUGE parties-up to 1,500 kids!

At the end of it 90% decide to go on to leave the world behind and stay Amish.

If they decide not to go back and be Amish, then they never get to see their family again....and they have big close-knit families.

It was just so weird seeing footage of these Amish kids getting drunk-one got hooked on meth and then got off it again.

One girl decided not to be Amish because she wanted to go to college-the Amish stop schooling after the eighth grade because they beleive too much education makes you pridefull.

They interviewed an amish girl who decided to go back and remain Amish...it cracked me up because here she is sitting there with her long dress and bonnet saying...

"well you know there are things I will miss-like going to concerts...I had such a great time at Ozfest!!"
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Old 10-14-2007, 03:38 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Oh congradualations on being an impending grandma!!!
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Old 10-14-2007, 04:11 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Smile Sociology Class...

Our class went to Portland, Oregon and got to see the homeless people on Burnside Street. This particular area has been the subject of many documentaries. We were given a talk by the person that was an Overseeer of the Program for renovating old hotels for rooms for the homeless to use. Most of the work was done by volunteers, some of them were homeless with experience in building..contractors etc.

They all look out for each other and some drink some don't. Some are college educated and some aren't. Most all of them choose to live there. We saw the bag ladies with grocery carts full of their belongings. We saw men with several outfits of clothing on. There were public showers that took quarters, a place to sell a pint of blood for $25 and they were kept track of so no one gave blood too often.

Then we had to go back to school and was given an assignment to write a paper about how we felt about what we saw. I had heard about this area for years but it was not a place "strangers in nice clothing" went to on their own. In fact they could always pick out someone that didn't belong no matter how they dressed. Just intuitive I guess.

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Old 10-14-2007, 04:25 PM   #11 (permalink)
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Oh congradualations on being an impending grandma!!!
Thank you; very exciting and very scary all at once.......
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Old 10-14-2007, 05:25 PM   #12 (permalink)
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hey about Patti Smith and no makeup.......i don't wear makeup either!!! early on when hank and i got together, he told me, you don't need makeup, you are beautiful just as you are........

so the PACKERS won! wooo hooo. i made up some kick ass potato salad, we gonna do a beercan chicken on the grill and have the Seahawks coming up at 5! bucky's all curled up being a sweet boy at the moment......nice day in the 60s.............got ALL laundry caught up, even the special load hank likes to keep festering in the back seat of his car!

new candle has the place smelling so divine...........it just don't get no gooder!
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Old 10-14-2007, 05:31 PM   #13 (permalink)
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This is a pretty tight game!! Guess which team I want to win?? LOL
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Look at this!! That boy better not be on any substance. He seemed fine today. Please keep him in your prayers. I'd hate to have to kick his a$$!
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i see all of you found me....proud of me yet???? i started this thread on my own and even updated by background on my space.....its been a creative day...
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Troy is doing well today - i hope so.......he should at least have an opportunity to have a clean life; god bless...
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Took the little guy and bought him a Halloween costume. He's going to be a pumpkin LOL. Just wait till you get to do the grandma thing Palm..........I love it!!
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such a cutie.....i could just eat him up.....i bet he would be so tasty with that baby smell n all.....such priceless....
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Yes he is too cute Loves.....as soon as I get this next roll of film developed, I'll put some on here of mine.....

Well completely wonderful but way too short visit.....and I'm so beat all to hell.....worn smooth out yes we are....

Got Gracie in the tub already she's had no nap, maybe she'll go right to sleep and I won't

Who knows it would be nice to have a nice (notice I said nice) long talk with Rusty, but he was supposed to call me back and now there's no answer on either one of his phones......WTF, so he just called.. get this he's not working tomorrow!!!! Surprise, Surprise
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Hi everyone had a nice dinner, just got home and checking in. Ah called. he said he wanted to get his life together cause he really wanted to be able to be a family someday and that he knew his actions were responsible for us being apart. He sounded so sincere. I know he is with his intentions, I just so wish I knew how to ever really know


anyway Im gonna call it an early night again. Night all
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So to continue this crap about abf....long story short...no he's not coming over to talk. Funny....seems to me....he said he'd come by after the 5:30 mtg tomorrow...yeah at his convenience and when my 3 yr old is running around needing supper bla bla bla...OK so F*ck it.....WTF, can't I get my piece said here? This is all too much, I'm really sick of worrying about all this, needing to talk and where is he? Hell he ain't working tomorrow so what's the excuse?

Sorry guys, I know it's getting old hearing me b!tch and whine about this all the time....this past week has really sucked as far as anything with him is concerned. I really know what I need to do, it's just hard.
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I had made the agreement with myself I would give this deal until the end of the year.....Wow it's rapidly approaching. I beat myself up! Is it me, is it him, is it us. Why can't I this, why can't I that..... I just wish that he would have never called back in March. I was fine just thinking of him and carrying on my mundane, life. Very peaceful existence except for the 3 yr old's fits.

I am at a complete loss.......sigh
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Thank you Happy.....I'm meeting with my sponsor on Saturday, I wish that was today.

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