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Posted 06-25-2008 at 03:12 PM by ROFL
Updated 08-23-2008 at 03:58 PM by ROFL

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  1. Old Comment
    Aysha's Avatar
    Depends on the question I think.
    If theres nothing you can do. Then theres nothing left to do but let it go and move on.
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    Posted 06-25-2008 at 06:11 PM by Aysha Aysha is offline
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    I find that the desire to answer questions is a desire for control. To be able to answer all our questions would make life much less intimidating and safe as we would be in total control. No mysteries.

    On the other hand, when I obsess over finding an answer for a particular question is when I find myself forgetting to live in the moment. I let life pass me by temporarily and that's just annoying.
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    Posted 06-25-2008 at 08:54 PM by Stamps43 Stamps43 is offline
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    How does one live with unanswered questions? Do we simply try to forget the questions? Try not to care?

    Or is it possible that the question is more important than the answer, and we can fill in the blanks with anything we choose?
    Maybe it's like a zen koan - there is no right answer. 'What is the sound of one hand clapping?' etc.

    I think that there are some problems or issues that have no solution or answer. All I can do is learn to manage it and somehow weave it into the fabric of my life. Of course, I tried to find the solution at the bottom of a bottle but that didn't work too well :-p
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    Posted 06-26-2008 at 05:19 AM by TigerLili TigerLili is offline
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    no answering and not knowing is really living in self denial. I am currently having a problem with my partner being this way.... it is better to be realistic... and make the effort.
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    Posted 06-28-2008 at 04:10 AM by carolineteo carolineteo is offline
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    don't know....is being teachable...letting go of control and being open to all possiblities! It's exciting if I can let go of the fear!
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    Posted 07-06-2008 at 09:18 AM by ananda ananda is offline
 

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