I understand so much, yet understand so little at the same time. I've been to a few alanon meetings, but I'm not "feeling" it really & have no clue what to do. I'm not sure if I should try going to an AA meeting or just stick out the alanon meetings. It's all so confusing. I've read some of the AA big book, and bought some books from alanon that I started reading. I'm ready to do the steps & get the ball rolling. I really would love to do my resentments, because I could write a...