how badly do you want it

how badly does one want soberity i asked my sponceree, seems she wants it bad as she says , but then fails to find time to do what needs to be done , sleeping most the day and complains shes tired . I told her shes substuting booze for sleep , sleeping away the issues which caused her to drink in the first place . Hes fiance keeps dredging up the past . she's trying to let it go and move forward. but constantly reminded on a daily basis. He wont give it up . Were sposed to attend a meeting tonight but she wasnt feeling up to it , and thats when i asked her how badly she wants soberity , her reply was Badly ! I told her then get up off your a** and get here into town and lets hit that meeting ...I have a funny feeling ill be going solo.Its irritates me that shes not going , But i dont know what else there is that I can do or say. I know you gotta want it , and she does , but im not sure she wants it bad enuff to do what she has to do . she hasnt even really attempted to read much of the big book a few pages is all shes gottin in so far. My reply was to that " MAKE TIME " like you did to drink . I just wanted to vent lil bit and see if anyone has anything that i can more then im already doing .. Peace be with you all Zoner