Black girrrl in LOVE!

[lilbit]

So...I'm not black...and that's okay...All day and night.
I lost me bike to a seXXXy cat and all I dream about him...riding down the track...getting further away...all day and night...riding further away on my bike...
But I'll be here...raisnin our kid...watchin ya ride on by.
Thanks fer the dollars in my pocket and the cool little locket around our baby girls neck.
Cause we waitin for you to find that dream of yours on the long black highway...and it's turning us blue...and my heart black.
Even got's me another man helpin out...married me...cause ya wouldn't...
But that's okay...all day all night.....cause we all have is our own way...just for today...and we'll be waitin..in the dust of yer tracks...on yer big fat Vmax....

Ride on...Ride on...all day all night thru the blue and black...all day and all night.

LOVE THE MEN AND WOMEN IN MY LIFE!
AND ALL THE LITTLE KIDDIEZ!

STAY SOBER!

PEACE OUT!

[lilbit]

WHAH? NO love fer the wiggas here? Ah...well...Kinda use to people not understandin me...it's all good. STILL SOBER and lovin LIFE on Life's TERMS!

YAAAAHHHHOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!

[Fulldresser4]

Not to be stupid, but what's a wigga?

[lilbit]

1. Wigga-
Person that takes great pride in draping him/herself with shiny FUBU, Johnny Blaze, Champion, Wu-Tang and whatever else fake shite they can find at the markets, then pretend they are in the ghetto and call their mates "Dawg" and "beotch" or "word up ******". Prerequisiteof wearing oversized jacket on a stinking hot day.

So says the Urban Dictionary.

I like
#3. The term "wigga" ia a combination of the word white and the racial slur "******". Which has evolved to "*****" with the common reference from African-American to African American...(black guy to black guy) They typically dress in hip hop clothing (2-3 times their size), which they refer to as "urban wear". These people are typically wealthy Caucasian males, which live in the suburbs and do not have any affiliation or idea of what a ghetto is like.


I lived in Jersey City...circa 1985
I lived in Oakland, CA (the bad part) for years
I lived in Savannah, GA West 41st and Jefferson (MR. WONDERFUL RULES!)
And my dad grew up in Camden, NJ.
So...a little props there please. Never slung crack.
Love braidin my hair...kids won't let me do theirs. They are white.
Husband is white....dog is black...lucky dog!

So...there ya have it...fer now...
STAY SOBER YA'LL!

[lionsstripe]

you know i wuvs ya

[lilbit]

But #5. REALLY NAILS IT...
A caucasian male or female that takes on the personality of inner city blacks. Similar to being bi-sexual. You will NEVER EVER be truly accepted by either side.

So..there ya have it...But I am SOBER....and getting thru the day like every other male or female here...so I am trying...even if nobody likes a wigga.

PEACE OUT!
Tha BITZ

[lilbit]

Thank you lion...it takes a village to raise this idiot.
And with a friend like you...I'm all the more blessed!

[lionsstripe]

well you might be a self proclaimed wigga but girl et me tell you straight up im a long haired country boy woooooooo hoooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

[lilbit]

Hon...you can be my wigga-billie if ya wanna...get ready fer tha hate mail now!
LOVE YA!

[bigredme]

Wigga-billy???? LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lova ya Bitz and Lionman!

[bigredme]

PS Bitz...i really liked your poem. Knowing you as I do it made my heart hurt for you and especially lil locket baby. that line will stay in my head for awhile...
xoxo

[Rarly Harley]

Originally Posted by lilbit

Hon...you can be my wigga-billie if ya wanna...get ready fer tha hate mail now!
LOVE YA!

Bitz: Won't get no hate mail here, my Sister. You are a breath of fresh air. Stick around, we need you here. BTW, I didn't pick up on what meetin's you been attendin'...Love to hear how that's goin' for ya...

[lilbit]

I am a big fan of AA NA and think they're some great ways to help stay out of trouble here...in life. I have a great friend that is also my sponser 12+years (and her mommi-in-law 30+)....she lurks around these forums with me...pulls me aside and gives me a reality check...like a slap to the back of my head if I get too out of hand...but we're Joisey like that...we make up by chain smoking and drinking coffee. LOVE HER! I support any and all programs. I'm on a war on addiction. I'll take anything...right now...anything that will keep me SOBER and SEARCHING. I am always looking for both sides of the story...and then make my mind up and go on....sometimes changing further on down the road. Cause I'm human like that. EVERY person I have ever met...read...or heard about has something I can learn from...and if anybody UNDERSTANDS me...well then I can pass that on. Gotta give to get and all. I'm here on Lifes terms and that's a good thing. Beats being dead and at THE BIG TABLE....if ya know what I mean.
Well....LOVE YA!
DON'T DRINK/USE....all day...just for today....ONE DAY AT A TIME!

[Jazzed_N_MD]

It's not all that often that I come in here and read every post in the new threads. Usually, I just glance at a few and read the latest one. This one here, I read each and every entry, thoroughly enjoyed myself.

Personally, I don't like or use the "n" word whether it has two "G's" or two "C's" in it. To me, it's has a historically negative connotation to it no matter how it's spelled.

Calling a friend, in one word, the lowest piece of fecal matter in existence as a term of endearment, shows a form of ignorant arrogance that is beyond comprehension.

Okay,...lemme get down of this pedestal before I fall off...

[lilbit]

Nobody likes a wigga either....NOBODY! But I'm taking ownership of the word...puttin a little spin on it and loving it. Blacks that I know ("African Americans" to the uptight maybe secretly predjudice people) call each other the "noddle" word (changed due to uptight white people THAT still won't put a brotha in the WHITE HOUSE) and some of the old timers get al pizzy about it. Different strokes fer different folkes. Gotta read the audience in close contact. I don't have a problem with language...or words. Been called everything you can call me. Was even called "noodle" (once again changed the word) every day in Catholic grade school. Even the two black kids looked the other way. I am was a tan cutie and peolpe have a hard time with unfamilliar things....especially in Hinsdale , IL. I get that. It's okay...for me. Languages were always changed up (slang) to get the meaning out of companionship between people. Blacks have Ebonics...or street talk (ghetto slang). Slaves sang in the fields to one another to communicate...and good 'ol missah massah paid them little mind cause he was too busy mastering the King's English....wonder what THAT idiot yelled when they all say "Ummm we goin outa herez ya dumz crackahh...picksz ya ownsz cottonzz....ummmmm ahhh". Probably...SHITE! They are ALL GONE!! NOW WHAT CAN YE EVER DO?" Cat probably invented pollyester....solved his problem...and the blacks all took off...into some cold azz states. Boy..THAT's a crappy deal! So...go on with I don't use the word "noodle" that's okay. Nobody really cares unless yer trying to bang some hippy chic...maybe she'll care. But don't worry about us wiggas or "noodlez"...we is Otay! today...Just try ta listen to the brotha that wants the key to the White House...he promises he won't spray paint it black...I hope.
Anyhoo...stay SOBER and keep riding!
Love ya!
The Bitz

[lilbit]

Ps... Woman Was Historically Negative Word Too.....

[toad]

Originally Posted by lilbit

I am a big fan of AA NA

Hey lilbit................great time to be clean and sober, is it not?

How much time you got in the programs?

[lilbit]

I wrote about how much time I have "in the program" somewhere else...can't remember where. I was on another website and tore away from the AA affiliation and started my own branch called Addikts Anyhow. THAT just started a few ago.
Still SOBER today..it's all I have control over at the moment...and isn't THAT enough fer an addict/alky?
Don't get me wrong...those programs pulled me out of the rabbit hole I was in....and I still follow allot of the program to a "T"...pretty darn close...just built my own program...kinda like a "kit" bike....or that Johnny Cash song where he made that car one piece at a time. Still gets me where I'm going....one piece at a time. ONE DAY AT A TIME!
LOVE YA!

[Conez]

ok i'm new to recovery...
Bitz, pls tell me whats working for u today?

i was interested in this....

Originally Posted by lilbit

I was on another website and tore away from the AA affiliation and started my own branch called Addikts Anyhow. THAT just started a few ago.
Still SOBER today..it's all I have control over at the moment...and isn't THAT enough fer an addict/alky?
just built my own program...kinda like a "kit" bike.....gets me where I'm going....one piece at a time. ONE DAY AT A TIME!

can u pls elaborate some more.....

Just noticed ur social group, hope to get some more info and support. thanx
Sober today

[Jazzed_N_MD]

Originally Posted by lilbit

I wrote about how much time I have "in the program" somewhere else...can't remember where. I was on another website and tore away from the AA affiliation and started my own branch called Addikts Anyhow.

I am not hatin nor putting anybodies program down but isn't this a divide and conquer thing?
I mean if we keep splitting the "Fellowship" by starting new "A's", doesn't the fellowship as a whole become divided? Already there is a large divide between AA and NA, just because of the lifestyle that was involved in our active disease. Alot of alcoholics find it hard to identify with addicts because they may never have used street drugs. And alot of addicts (generally) "wont" identify with the "real" alcoholic because they can't understand that particular nature of self-abuse.

IMHO, this is what happened to mankind and religion. Just a thought that makes me go...Hmmmm

[zencat]

Originally Posted by Jazzed_N_MD

I mean if we keep splitting the "Fellowship" by starting new "A's", doesn't the fellowship as a whole become divided?

I see the Addikts Anyhow group just like a special interest group as like the bikers group is. I for one believe one addict helping another the real cause for sobriety and the idealism behind it can be varied with the same effectiveness as any thing else already out there. I adhere to SMART Recovery as my program and it helped me when all other programs failed.

[Jazzed_N_MD]

Originally Posted by zencat

I see the Addikts Anyhow group just like a special interest group as like the bikers group is. I for one believe one addict helping another the real cause for sobriety and the idealism behind it can be varied with the same effectiveness as any thing else already out there. I adhere to SMART Recovery as my program and it helped me when all other programs failed.

Do you mean in the NA literature "The therapeutic value of one addict helping another is without parallel?" No where in NA literature is the term sober or sobriety used. Newcomers get a mixed message when the programs are mixed even though one evolved from the other. I understand the special interest group classification. There is not any fellowship out there specifically designed toward bikers, though there is one (or more) designed for addicts. My question is why develop another? Isn't NA enough? (Or Cocaine Anonymous or Chemical Dependency Anonymous or Chrystal Meth Anonymous or Marijuana Anonymous)?

Step 1 of AA says I am powerless over alcohol, and my life is unmanageable.
Step 1 of NA says I am powerless over my addiction and my life is unmanageable.

Again, all of this is just my opinion. What gets and keeps you clean, sober or substance free is what you should be doing. Just as I must do what I must do to have a life in recovery.

I guess we as humans should just "get a grip" on all this division and find the similarities. After all powerlessness is powerlessness and unmanageability is unmanageably. And right after step 1, there's step 2.

[lilbit]

Went out for a few minutes and now I'm back....
Addikts Anyhow is really just another support to THE support systems...AA NA OA GA LA..and on and on...takes all types to get addicted...takes all types to get and stay clean...SOBER...and on the right path. A light in the fog is a valuable thing...no matter how you end up here or there...WE ARE ALL IN THIS TOGETHER! I can hear a gamblin fool and totally relate to his or her "high"....same thing with food...as I am a survivor of bulimia and anorexia....Alanon...helps me....NA...I am an addict...I will abuse anything and everything (but now I'm AWARE of this and all the more capable of finding help in times of need). LA...I just made THAT one up. I'd join it though...I HATED LA!
So...there's a bit.
Now...since I'm still unpacking and cracking my back (TRAFFIC SUCKED!!!!)..I gotta go see a thing about a thing. (Joisey Speak)

LOVE YA'LL...and missed THIS place....with all you crazy cats!!!!!

lilbit