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lvs2binthewind · 10-22-2006, 02:36 PM

I think I finally realised what the true meaning of the third step means. It took a hell of a lot for me to go to my church(laid back, harley shirts and jeans are the dress code) and finally ask God that if my ol man had suffered enough, to take him and to just give me the strength to handle it. I guess he was listening cause 2 wks later, he was gone. So many people here sent out prayers for him and I think between his faith and the fact that he knew I was gonna be Ok gave him the power to let go. He had been a parapalegic for almost 7 yrs and passed 2 days b4 our 8th anniversary. I was his full time caretaker but never considered it a burden. My 16 yo son put it quite well, he said I never saw a man in a wheelchair, I saw the man in the wheelchair.
Now I'm starting to think of doing things I couldnt for so many years, like ride!
Been looking at scoots, sure like the Heritage softail. Guess I should learn to ride first. Been riding (queen) for 30 yrs but need some lessons or something come spring so I can be safe out there. Just wanted to thank everyone for all the support. Talk to u soon..........Kerri

tramp · 10-22-2006, 02:40 PM

got get em'

best · 10-22-2006, 07:55 PM

Good seeing you found the post new thread button *LOL*

Your husband is blessed having you by his side like that through all of that time.

As for riding... I rode before but after taking the safety course, I realized I didn't fully know the right way to ride. MSF has a riding course in just about every state. I highly recomend it for everyone...even long time riders.

http://www.msf-usa.org/index_new.cfm...rCourse%20Info

recoveringnky · 10-23-2006, 06:06 AM

Sorry for your loss, but it's great to see you looking at the positive side! I agree with Best...the MSF course is the way to go. That's how I did it and I'm so glad I spent the money and took the time!

Blessings to you!!
Kym

BillJ · 10-24-2006, 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by lvs2binthewind

I was his full time caretaker but never considered it a burden.

My wife was caretaker to me after my accident. Hence, I can say, with some authority, that your ol' man likely knew just how blessed he was to have you in his life. I'm sorry for your loss, but glad you're finding the blessings there.

As for riding your own bike: welcome to the front seat! The view's great from here!

I, too, recommend an MSF course. The Basic is good for folks just starting out, and the Advanced is a helpful refresher. The insurance discounts are sweet, too!

best · 10-29-2006, 03:17 PM

Kerri

When I took the safety course, there were 6 girls and 8 guys in the course.

I won't say who did better..guys vs girls (still in denial on this*LOL*) but I will say...you have nothing to worry about by taking the course.

10-22-2006, 02:36 PM	#1 (permalink)
lvs2binthewind Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Ingleside,Illinois Posts: 11	Watch out for the potholes I think I finally realised what the true meaning of the third step means. It took a hell of a lot for me to go to my church(laid back, harley shirts and jeans are the dress code) and finally ask God that if my ol man had suffered enough, to take him and to just give me the strength to handle it. I guess he was listening cause 2 wks later, he was gone. So many people here sent out prayers for him and I think between his faith and the fact that he knew I was gonna be Ok gave him the power to let go. He had been a parapalegic for almost 7 yrs and passed 2 days b4 our 8th anniversary. I was his full time caretaker but never considered it a burden. My 16 yo son put it quite well, he said I never saw a man in a wheelchair, I saw the man in the wheelchair. Now I'm starting to think of doing things I couldnt for so many years, like ride! Been looking at scoots, sure like the Heritage softail. Guess I should learn to ride first. Been riding (queen) for 30 yrs but need some lessons or something come spring so I can be safe out there. Just wanted to thank everyone for all the support. Talk to u soon..........Kerri

10-22-2006, 07:55 PM	#3 (permalink)
best Don't get undies in a bunch Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: South Shore MA Posts: 7,166	Good seeing you found the post new thread button LOL Your husband is blessed having you by his side like that through all of that time. As for riding... I rode before but after taking the safety course, I realized I didn't fully know the right way to ride. MSF has a riding course in just about every state. I highly recomend it for everyone...even long time riders. http://www.msf-usa.org/index_new.cfm...rCourse%20Info __________________ * I asked God to spare me pain. God said "No", Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me. Recovery Related Acronym B. E. S. T. = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today?

10-23-2006, 06:06 AM	#4 (permalink)
recoveringnky Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: The beautiful mountains of Kentucky Posts: 677	Sorry for your loss, but it's great to see you looking at the positive side! I agree with Best...the MSF course is the way to go. That's how I did it and I'm so glad I spent the money and took the time! Blessings to you!! Kym __________________ Kym P. Keeping it Simple Life is too short for drama & petty things, so kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly and forgive quickly.

10-29-2006, 03:17 PM	#6 (permalink)
best Don't get undies in a bunch Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: South Shore MA Posts: 7,166	Kerri When I took the safety course, there were 6 girls and 8 guys in the course. I won't say who did better..guys vs girls (still in denial on thisLOL) but I will say...you have nothing to worry about by taking the course. __________________ * I asked God to spare me pain. God said "No", Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me. Recovery Related Acronym B. E. S. T. = Been Enjoying Sobriety Today?

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