- Feel like an ACOA
- My Mom committed suicide
- white knight complex
- My Dad
- past victim self image keeps getting triggered
- wishing to do well to inflict pain/grief/revenge on those that abused/hurt us
- family hero, scapegoat, lost child, mascot - what book defines these roles?
- john bradshaw healing the shame that binds you
- sports team or child who is the most important
- Why we isolate ourselves
- The affect on children of A's-a question for resources or readings
- I'm at a breaking point
- At a dead end
- relationship????
- Important announcement - please read
- Alcoholic Father/Mother is an Enabler
- My Father Relapsed After 8+ Years Sober
- thank you aol
- Better off Dead
- My Dad - drinking for 30+ years
- Feeling bad for speaking up
- I'm not sure if it's a problem, or if I'm in denial.
- Alcoholic With Alcoholic Parent - Dealing With Shame in Recovery
- may be slightly ot but: i feel my father married a crazy woman
- Finding the balance in parenting our own children
- The anger is growing, is that good or bad?
- The angry inner conversation starts again...
- My mom
- Like a rebelious teenager
- people that give them the alcohol :(
- pressing charges/forcing them into help
- need to have a talk with my sister and she's not going to like it
- Alcoholic Mother in ICU
- feeling overwelmed and need to vent
- "We learn to reparent ourselves .
- Help...
- Alcoholic mother is threatening me...
- Mom drinking after 15 years sober
- My first ACA meeting...
- Have I permanently screwed up my kids?
- Can I trust what I thought was Reality all of this time?
- Isolation and ACoA
- We learn to reparent ourselves=This is so the Key for ME.
- When Is It Finally Time To Walk Away
- love=pain do you relate?
- just became aware that i feel foolish in doing unnecessary things for myself
- Have not visited a single family
- job or career ideas for acoa's
- setting realistic expectations how to?
- what are you going to do about it