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Old 07-13-2016, 06:10 PM
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Congrats on seven months sober!

The heat here in Ohio is hard to take also. I asked my brother to put in my two window a/c units yesterday cause it got so bad. It helps keep the house a bit more tolerable. Going outside is horrible.
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Old 07-13-2016, 06:12 PM
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Hang in there, sleepie. Fall is coming.
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Old 07-13-2016, 06:23 PM
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What do you do Hawkeye, do you take cover in AC? This is no way to live, hopping in the shower several times or sitting around in wet clothes in front of a fan. I am sober only because I am afraid of kindling. It is the only reason I have not drank. God knows I have been pushed beyond what I can take.
Showers, kiddie pool in the backyard, AC helps but climate change
from cold / hot hot / cold not easy anyway.

Oddly I have found doing limited"sweaty activities" like gym or hot yoga and then showering after
have helped my system, which was compromised from heat collapse when younger, get adapted somewhat.

I'm careful but I started doing that last year and it has helped
me get from parking lot to building, carrying stuff in from car, etc.
which used to really make me sick.

I know you've endured a lot and I'm also afraid of kindling and the really bad reaction last time I relapsed,
so I've got your back there and understand that fear as well.
Use it to keep you sober momentum, even though things suck right now.
Like trach says, Fall is coming and you are closer to a year than a Day 1 now.

You've really made such a strong effort with being sober despite everything.
Some days lately when I wake up my sober date is all that keeps me going, and it is the thing I accomplish for that day.
My sober date is close to yours--I will have seven months in just three more days.

You aren't alone. We are here for you.
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Old 07-13-2016, 06:26 PM
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For all those who once drank their way through many a summer... and for those who are sent into hiding at the first hint of heat.

Was ill yesterday from the heat, still shaky and weak today.

I want this to be my "cool" place.

This is my first summer in years that I am sober and also not even a benzo.
Glad you are sober sleepie! We can get thru this Summer!
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Old 07-13-2016, 07:11 PM
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I am close to 7 months but won't actually be til the 21st.

Hawk what you said really caught my eye because I had a bout of heat illness 4 entire years ago and have been even more sensitive to the heat since then. Would you mind telling me what happened when you were a kid? I mean everything I read said recovery from heat sickness in a day or 2 but I have never felt the same and just go into a panic at the thought of it happening again, since it can kill you. Everyone else is like "Summertime!" And I am like... "Possible death time for several months".
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Old 07-13-2016, 07:38 PM
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I often got overheated as a kid as I worked for riding lessons in a barn
because we couldn't afford to pay for them, so I'd clean stalls and carry feed bags,
groom horses, walk out to pastures to bring horses in, ride for hours, clean tack,
etc. all in very hot humid conditions and I rode in shows sometimes 3 or 4 horses
in a single jumping class and would often get sick and dizzy.
Event riding, fox hunting, cross country things plus track and trail running
were other high-intensity sports I did in the heat and would often throw up
or have to lie down and cool off with ice, or jumping in a pond or horse trough.
Worst time was a Summer in Lexington KY training with a famous person
as a working student and had seven horses to care for--
cleaning stalls, sweeping barn, cleaning tack, etc. in screaming hot weather.
Horses even had fans on their stalls but we didn't.
And we had to dress in boots and breeches to look good for rich clients.

I wanted to participate, and had to be tough as nails since I took care of other
people's horses, but in the end I went home two weeks early as I was seriously
ill due to heat with headaches, rashes, nausea, etc. and I'm sure I was dehydrated much of that time.

The finishing point for me was years later planting twelve large pine trees and their giant root balls
some 20 years ago on my own in Summer. Passed out at some point and wasn't I the same after that--
couldn't tolerate hours of heat any longer without feeling sick and dizzy.

That's how it was until last year when I started training in my garage gym with
no AC and working out hard. Rivers of sweat would come off me and I'd drink
ice water and sit in front of fan after workouts, but gradually I adapted again
and now I can work my tail off in the heat pulling weeds, digging, etc. and
feel OK with adequate water and frequent showers / cooling off periods.
I also do a hot yoga class weekly and that is another place I am adapted and
I actually stand over the heaters to sweat more for that 11/2 hours.
I drink ice water, shower, and cool off after class and it seems to also
have helped me get better in terms of tolerating heat for periods of time.

Hope this helps.
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Old 07-13-2016, 08:08 PM
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Thank you Hawkeye I SO needed to hear this! Thank you so much!

Unbelievable that you re-conditioned yourself...!
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Old 07-14-2016, 06:01 PM
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I went slowly and carefully sleepie--
I made sure to have ice water, and cool off options until I knew
I was able to handle it, but really love the freedom I have now in the Summer
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Old 07-15-2016, 02:17 AM
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Some cooler weather here in Milwaukee the next couple of days. You learn to enjoy these kinds of days while you can...back to the 90s next week (ugh)!
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Old 07-19-2016, 09:40 PM
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Oh wow... a few days in the high 90's around the corner... and we are talking without even including the humidity- in a couple days we are predicted to have hot humid weather with a heat index of 110-115
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Old 07-20-2016, 05:14 AM
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Here too. . . not looking forward to this either
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Old 07-20-2016, 12:51 PM
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Ugh. I am already in "lockdown" mode and we even have the AC on, though it does not seem to be able to keep a fair temperature- only quite hot or cold.
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Old 07-20-2016, 01:00 PM
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Hi sleepie.
I hope you feel better soon.
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Old 07-20-2016, 01:19 PM
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Hi lunar thanks, how are things over in your neck of the woods?
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Old 07-20-2016, 01:44 PM
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Doing okay.
Wish you well.
Please take away the black space.
You are quite the talented artist.
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Old 07-20-2016, 03:32 PM
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LOl aw thanks lunar but that's just what I am feeling lately.
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Old 07-20-2016, 03:54 PM
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you should visit more lunar, how's the sober path going?

Hi Aussie are you still biking?
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Old 07-20-2016, 04:01 PM
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Hi Sleepie
I started again yesterday after a break , I got really lazy and in a funk and couldn't get any motivation but I am trying again , I feel better for the effort.
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Old 07-20-2016, 04:02 PM
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All is good, sleepie.
I am very upset that tomorrow is my late
cousins birthday. 721
My mentor, the guy that had every single
answer always 110% right.
721.
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Old 07-20-2016, 04:05 PM
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Maybe do something to honor him?
Those dates can be tough.
It sounds like he was really special.
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