Anyone else fed up with our Alcohol culture
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But it is a poisen. Getting drunk is your brain's reaction to the toxin. People usually become unconscious when they drink more than a certain amount. Sometimes (for various reasons), they can drink beyond that and then die of alcohol poisening! Short of that, repeated alcohol use can permanently damage various parts of th body including essential organs. How is that not a poisen?
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It can get a little annoying, but remember we are seeing in through the Alcoholic lens as well. They shouldnt feel guilty for enjoying some drinks, because some of us cant.
When it crosses the line into glorifying hardcore drinking and alcoholic type behavior, then I agree with you.
When it crosses the line into glorifying hardcore drinking and alcoholic type behavior, then I agree with you.
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Fact is alcohol is a poison. It is not a food or even a drug in that sense. It should have the poison label on it when you buy it. No one would consider drinking a little ammonia at a party. What's the difference? I'm sick of the cultural propaganda machine as well. Selling the illusion that any amount of drinking is normal or even healthy. I don't know how many times I've seen articles claiming that a glass of wine a day is good for you. What horse****. It's a poison, it's a toxin. Let's call it what it is. I'm not telling anyone what to do, but stating the truth on a matter is surly preferable to the lie. Not one of us would think that sniffing gas is normal. Why? Because it's a poison. I'm taking the hard line here. I have to. I'm not judging social drinkers or going to brow beat anyone, but if they ask i'll tell them how I see it.
That **** is nasty.
I feel much better. I'm glad I got that off my chest. I missed my AA meeting today cause I'm in pain and can't move to well right now. Thanks for letting me share.
That **** is nasty.
I feel much better. I'm glad I got that off my chest. I missed my AA meeting today cause I'm in pain and can't move to well right now. Thanks for letting me share.
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Hi lady blue
But don't they also have all you can eat breadsticks? Red robin, all you can eat French fries? Our horrid food culture and how it is relentlessly advertised and targeted at kids? That bothers me a whole lot more than alcohol and frankly has a far bigger impact on individual health and cost to society than booze.
Yeah I get the alcohol 'thing' but most people don't even notice it. I of course can't miss it. But that's because I'm an addict. Those that are overweight/obese probably are very triggered driving down a major road that has a horrid food choice, drive through, every third building.
Ha! This wasn't really in response to your post....just a thought. I remember being in a small town in Austria for meetings with Philips. We got there around 2pm and were starved. There literally was not 1 restaurant or cafe that was open. No 24/7 fast food options. Blew us away. Anyway, rambling here
But don't they also have all you can eat breadsticks? Red robin, all you can eat French fries? Our horrid food culture and how it is relentlessly advertised and targeted at kids? That bothers me a whole lot more than alcohol and frankly has a far bigger impact on individual health and cost to society than booze.
Yeah I get the alcohol 'thing' but most people don't even notice it. I of course can't miss it. But that's because I'm an addict. Those that are overweight/obese probably are very triggered driving down a major road that has a horrid food choice, drive through, every third building.
Ha! This wasn't really in response to your post....just a thought. I remember being in a small town in Austria for meetings with Philips. We got there around 2pm and were starved. There literally was not 1 restaurant or cafe that was open. No 24/7 fast food options. Blew us away. Anyway, rambling here
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Maybe it's the places in which we hang around ?
Many drink in a non addictive way.
Does that stand out to only us and mainly bother us in recovery ?
The longer that we are sober the less we notice
or even think about ourselves or others drinking alcohol.
True, addictions to drugs and alcohol has been going on since the beginning of time. Many were blowing it even in the early Bible days.
The main thing today is that I don't drink.
Wouldn't matter if everyone else was drinking, I still would not.
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Many drink in a non addictive way.
Does that stand out to only us and mainly bother us in recovery ?
The longer that we are sober the less we notice
or even think about ourselves or others drinking alcohol.
True, addictions to drugs and alcohol has been going on since the beginning of time. Many were blowing it even in the early Bible days.
The main thing today is that I don't drink.
Wouldn't matter if everyone else was drinking, I still would not.
MB
I'm going to have to agree with you. Outside of going to strictly diners, you're not going to avoid alcohol. It's literally everywhere. I think the only thing you can do is to surround yourself with people who are not hardcore drinkers. I, for one, refuse to let alcohol dictate where I will or will not go.
I don't even notice it at this point--at first, I really avoided drinking places and people, but now, it doesn't even register what they drink or don't.
However, I do find people getting drunk and drunk talk boring and disturbing, so I leave if that starts happening
However, I do find people getting drunk and drunk talk boring and disturbing, so I leave if that starts happening
How about France and Italy? Friends that visit say it's at every meal and common to see people with a loaf of French bread and bottle of wine. But people who don't abuse it see it as the norm and don't give it a second thought.
There's plenty to do without alcohol, we just don't see it when we aren't sober. I saw what I related to and what I was.
There's plenty to do without alcohol, we just don't see it when we aren't sober. I saw what I related to and what I was.
The thing is that "culture" and "society" is only what you make of it. There are a lot of things that are advertised that are not good for you. But they are only not good for you if you buy them and consume them.
I used to think that alcohol was "everywhere" too...but then I realized my addiction was just using that as an excuse to keep me drinking. We all have the choice to live our lives however we want to.
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Of course my friend remembers well my drinking days.
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As booze has become less and less important in my life in sobriety, I notice the culture of drinking less.
For example I avoided certain friends and situations when I stopped, the gatherings that were less about friendship and more about getting plastered.
I've become more discerning about the company I keep! I can do without the drinking buddies and spend my time with people I like.
For example I avoided certain friends and situations when I stopped, the gatherings that were less about friendship and more about getting plastered.
I've become more discerning about the company I keep! I can do without the drinking buddies and spend my time with people I like.
This is one of those things you can't control.
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.
That's one of the few prayers that stuck with my over the years. There's a whole lot of good advice in there if you follow.
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.
That's one of the few prayers that stuck with my over the years. There's a whole lot of good advice in there if you follow.
Being really involved in my local recovery community, what society/culture does doesn't really bother me. I don't notice it, I'm not "in" it anymore. Also I don't have a TV. I turned off my Facebook also right after I got sober. I read, work my program and hang out with sober people or other people I consider safe. Changing my environment has really helped me...I don't have to feel pressured, different or left out.
Did you ever notice how when drinking was involved the normal rules of economics went out the window? When I was a student with no money, I would often spend $100 on a night out drinking that I couldn't afford. But rarely spend $10 to eat out due to the expense. It just shows how your rational brain turns off once the wonderful drug is coursing through your veins.
Yes it's definitely inundated but honestly I have to go out of my way to both see and aquire it. Sometimes it bothers me and sometimes it doesn't at all. It's just there waiting to catch our av.
We have a huge drug and alcohol problem out here. Very noticeable with the beef upped security in liquor stores, banks and whatnot. The society impact is so quickly evident as you travel around our areas. Anyhow. I try to avoid. Nobody makes me drink but me. And the stupidest stuff will trigger me.
We have a huge drug and alcohol problem out here. Very noticeable with the beef upped security in liquor stores, banks and whatnot. The society impact is so quickly evident as you travel around our areas. Anyhow. I try to avoid. Nobody makes me drink but me. And the stupidest stuff will trigger me.
Yes. It's pretty much a given that most adults equate "getting together" in the evening with drinking alcohol. If I just go by my coworkers when we go to happy hour, they all drink. They all drink very lightly.
I'm just about two years sober and here are my thoughts on the issue.
Most people drink but they drink very little. I see nothing wrong non-alcoholics enjoying a drink or two and from my two years worth of observations, the vast majority of people leave it at one or two. I've been to weddings where I see people stopping after two drinks. I'll never forget once, this was when I was super early in sobriety, I was with a friend at a wedding and she was drinking a beer. As it came time to sit down, she waved down a waiter and said "Would you take this for me?" She left it on the tray and didn't drink the rest of the evening. Again, this wedding was in very early sobriety so I was watching everyone very closely. I did not see anyone get drunk. My friends who I was with drank one or two beers over four hours.
Long story short, the vast majority of people I know drink a few drinks a week, if that. Very few actually keep it in their home. Sure, this is just my observations, but I've noticed that people drink a lot less than I thought they did when I was still drinking.
Do I wish alcoholic was nowhere to be seen? Sure. I'm not going to get into the chaos that alcohol does cause for certain people, which it does.
One thing that really grinds my gears is this new beer culture where people talk about the 4,000 different types of beers like they're a fine delicacy, all unique and brewed in different places. Annooooying.
When there was a part of me that still wanted to drink, I saw alcohol everywhere I looked. I reached a moment, a turning point, an awakening you could call it, where I did not want to drink alcohol anymore. I repeat, I did not want to drink alcohol anymore. At this point I stopped really noticing it at all.
I'm 33 and had 10 years of alcoholic drinking. I often wonder about the people who are around 22 right now and just starting the path that I took with alcohol. I wonder what would get through to them? I even took an alcohol training course once to be a waiter at a restaurant and watched videos of DUI's and heard about all the health problems it caused. I thought it was meant for other people. Definitely not me.
I think their should be MUCH more stringent DUI training in order to get a driver's license.
I'm just about two years sober and here are my thoughts on the issue.
Most people drink but they drink very little. I see nothing wrong non-alcoholics enjoying a drink or two and from my two years worth of observations, the vast majority of people leave it at one or two. I've been to weddings where I see people stopping after two drinks. I'll never forget once, this was when I was super early in sobriety, I was with a friend at a wedding and she was drinking a beer. As it came time to sit down, she waved down a waiter and said "Would you take this for me?" She left it on the tray and didn't drink the rest of the evening. Again, this wedding was in very early sobriety so I was watching everyone very closely. I did not see anyone get drunk. My friends who I was with drank one or two beers over four hours.
Long story short, the vast majority of people I know drink a few drinks a week, if that. Very few actually keep it in their home. Sure, this is just my observations, but I've noticed that people drink a lot less than I thought they did when I was still drinking.
Do I wish alcoholic was nowhere to be seen? Sure. I'm not going to get into the chaos that alcohol does cause for certain people, which it does.
One thing that really grinds my gears is this new beer culture where people talk about the 4,000 different types of beers like they're a fine delicacy, all unique and brewed in different places. Annooooying.
When there was a part of me that still wanted to drink, I saw alcohol everywhere I looked. I reached a moment, a turning point, an awakening you could call it, where I did not want to drink alcohol anymore. I repeat, I did not want to drink alcohol anymore. At this point I stopped really noticing it at all.
I'm 33 and had 10 years of alcoholic drinking. I often wonder about the people who are around 22 right now and just starting the path that I took with alcohol. I wonder what would get through to them? I even took an alcohol training course once to be a waiter at a restaurant and watched videos of DUI's and heard about all the health problems it caused. I thought it was meant for other people. Definitely not me.
I think their should be MUCH more stringent DUI training in order to get a driver's license.
So true, when the waiter comes to get your drink orders and you ask for tap water or diet Coke, you can kind of feel the disappointment. But their loss is your gain. I can now often order the most expensive thing on the menu and the check will still seem remarkably low.
Did you ever notice how when drinking was involved the normal rules of economics went out the window? When I was a student with no money, I would often spend $100 on a night out drinking that I couldn't afford. But rarely spend $10 to eat out due to the expense. It just shows how your rational brain turns off once the wonderful drug is coursing through your veins.
Did you ever notice how when drinking was involved the normal rules of economics went out the window? When I was a student with no money, I would often spend $100 on a night out drinking that I couldn't afford. But rarely spend $10 to eat out due to the expense. It just shows how your rational brain turns off once the wonderful drug is coursing through your veins.
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