View Poll Results: Were your parents alcoholics?
No
132
32.67%
Yes, my mother was an alcoholic
48
11.88%
Yes, my father was an alcoholc
132
32.67%
Yes, both my mother and father were alcoholics
79
19.55%
I don't know
13
3.22%
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Were your parents alcoholics?
Father
Grandmother (paternal)
Grandfather (paternal)
Grandfather (maternal)
latter two died as a direct result of drinking alcohol
Grandmother, it is said, "phased out of it"
Father still imbibed but was put on a tight leash by my step-mother (who is a wonderful woman). He passed a few years back.
I was drinking obsessively from my first drink at around 16 years of age.
Grandmother (paternal)
Grandfather (paternal)
Grandfather (maternal)
latter two died as a direct result of drinking alcohol
Grandmother, it is said, "phased out of it"
Father still imbibed but was put on a tight leash by my step-mother (who is a wonderful woman). He passed a few years back.
I was drinking obsessively from my first drink at around 16 years of age.
For me, both of my parents, though my dad much, much more severe.
He's gotten several DUIS, it ruined my parents marriage, I was scared to death of him as a kid, he has gone years being sober before but always relapses, he is currently 71 and I fear he doesn't have much time left.
I'll never forget when I was 18, half a lifetime ago, and I got caught drinking at a campground with friends and court ordered to AA meetings. I walked in with a group of friends, thinking it was the funniest joke in the world, and ran into my dad (whom I hadn't seen in years) there. I'll never forget.. "Sue.. what are you doing here?". We had a good laugh about it. It's not so funny anymore, 18 years later.
He's gotten several DUIS, it ruined my parents marriage, I was scared to death of him as a kid, he has gone years being sober before but always relapses, he is currently 71 and I fear he doesn't have much time left.
I'll never forget when I was 18, half a lifetime ago, and I got caught drinking at a campground with friends and court ordered to AA meetings. I walked in with a group of friends, thinking it was the funniest joke in the world, and ran into my dad (whom I hadn't seen in years) there. I'll never forget.. "Sue.. what are you doing here?". We had a good laugh about it. It's not so funny anymore, 18 years later.
Neither of my parents were alcoholics.
But my Mother's Father was a severe alcoholic
who basically died in the gutter in the street before I was born.
I guess it skipped a generation.
But my Mother's Father was a severe alcoholic
who basically died in the gutter in the street before I was born.
I guess it skipped a generation.
I'm in the same boat as EternalQ. My parents rarely drink, but primarily because they witnessed the worst of my alcoholic grandfather's drinking and eventual recovery. The sad thing is, after he got sober he only enjoyed recovery for about six or seven years before dying at age 57 of esophageal cancer likely caused by his drinking.
I was continually warned about the dangers of alcohol growing up and had great role models in my parents. I, however, did not follow their example upon becoming independent and my drinking was a train wreck almost from the start.
Seeing as several of my great-uncles also died of complications related to alcoholism, I tend to agree that genetics plays a significant role in the development of addiction when the right environmental and emotional factors present themselves.
I was continually warned about the dangers of alcohol growing up and had great role models in my parents. I, however, did not follow their example upon becoming independent and my drinking was a train wreck almost from the start.
Seeing as several of my great-uncles also died of complications related to alcoholism, I tend to agree that genetics plays a significant role in the development of addiction when the right environmental and emotional factors present themselves.
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