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| Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: some where / no where
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Wow. Looks like we all know how to drink in different ways. No one is on this forum because drinking is helping our lives. I used to brag about how much I could drink. Like others here, I drank in all sorts of abnormal ways during my drinking "career". The key is that no matter how much, when, or how I drank....it was ALWAYS abnormal. I could "pretend" to be a normal drinker, but my relationship with alcohol was abusive. Alcoholism is progressive. I was an alcoholic from the first time alcohol touched my lips. I can relate to the person who wants to quit because he/she only got drunk once. I can also relate to others who drank daily. I like what Marty said, above "it's what drink made us become". I didn't get into trouble everytime I drank...but...everytime I got in trouble I was drinking. I was dependent on alcohol to "function". Alcohol was also robbing me of my ability to "function". If I ever want to flush my life down the toilet, all I need to do is pick up a drink. This thread is a bit of a "remember when" for me, but I prefer to focus on my recovery. I'm done counting drinks etc.... Today, I want to focus on staying sober. chip
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| Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Australia
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I have a senior management position and so does my fiancée. | |
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| Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Virginia
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Some interesting responses here, no doubt! Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I've had a couple of good days, and haven't been on here much, but I'm afraid to say anything........Y'all know how that goes....Am I simply "on top" of the wave?...LOL
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| Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Mobile, AL
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I was spending about $2400 a month drinking $5 shots of whiskey in a bar. I literally never drank at home. Thats only 18 shots a day, the average fifth of whiskey contains approximately 17 shots. Yes I made enough money to do it and I still have my business and customers, don't ask me how.
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| Sobriety found Join Date: May 2007 Location: West end
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I was drinking about 4 bottles of wine a day, give or take a few mini bottles and I was unemployed. My point is, if there is a will, there is a way. I lived off of my credit card for two years and supported my habit. I was unemployed and unemployable and had to much time to drink. There comes a point when money isn't a factor, when you are addicted to alcohol. You will find a way.
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Alcoholism = equal opportunity destroyer. Cares not how much money you make or where or how you live, or what quantity you have to drink to stay hooked....it can take you down whether you be a pauper or a prince. peace, b |
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| Focus Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Washington DC
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I have been blessed with the desire to go to dental school and an absolutely wonderful brother that I love to death (not for the following reason stated), that supplies me with cases and cases of free homemade wine. Never had thought maybe that wasn't ALWAYS a good thing | |
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Hi... I actually wasn't spending very much $ on alcohol, not very much at all, maybe $40 per week on wine (3-4 bottles of inexpensive wine which tasted fine), which amounted to around $160 per month. However, for me, it was destroying my life. To pick up on another thread, I get horrible hangovers, which I'm now thinking are a blessing rather than a curse. They are the real deterrent for me, as I cannot live a normal life if I'm feeling like crap every other day. I'm changing my ways and I credit this website for a lot of my recovery. And now my therapist, too. There's a way out of this hell hole.
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| Keep coming back! Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Calais, Maine
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More then I needed and less then I wanted. Or was it more then I wanted and less then I needed. Or wait, ... Oh, forget it. I was a blackout drunk. I can't remember. Enough that when I stopped all hell broke loose. It was shake, rattle, and roll time. I guess I just drank too much. |
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| Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Arizona
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I loved Jaegermeister and I would chase it with beer. On the weekends it would be Fri & Saturday. Then I would promise to not drink during the week and then have a slip or two. I would usually down a fifth and a six pack - usually in the span of a couple of hours, then blackout early. |
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I would get a pint of JD & a four-pack of Malt Liquor every day after work. Maybe that doesn't sound like so much, but after 30+ years of drinking, my liver had taken such a beating I would get blasted. Two shots & I was already slurring. The weekends? Around two overpriced pints of whiskey & AT LEAST a twelve-pack of beer. at one point I had $8.34 in my bank account- I still have the ATM reciept so I would never forget it. (about a year ago.) Doing much better now.... " Lest we forget" |
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| Heathen Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: La La Land, USA
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30-40 bucks at the bar, 3-4 times a week. A cheap ass $6.99 fifth of vodka every other day, or every three days. My fuzzy math equates that to around $800+ bucks a month on booze, and I haven't stolen anything either. It never mattered to me, I made it work however it would. |
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Here was a typical week... Monday: 2 bottles of wine Wednesday: 10-12 12oz beers, 2 shots of Jack, 1 bottle of wine Thursday: 6-8 12oz beers, 2 shots jack, 1 bottle of wine Friday: 1 bottle of wine Saturday: 10-12 12oz beers, 5+ shots, 1 bottle of wine It ended up averaging $200 per week. It's amazing I will still able to function (just barely) at all on that. No wonder I was a hot, flaming ball of anxiety all the time. Jeez! |
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| boleon Join Date: May 2008 Location: Detroit, MI
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Cheap Vodka only costs $5.00 a fifth and a case of beer on sale goes for under $10. Because I shopped around for booze I was able to get my weekly supply for about $50.00
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