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That's a good and interesting question... Sorry it took so long for me to see it... I think societal factors are the primary driver when someone starts to use alcohol. I don't think anyone spontaneously sought to use alcohol based on their genetics... In other words, alcohol use is held and presented as a viable option, whether it be in the form of peer pressure, social convention, or just simple advertising... The message is "using alcohol is okay"... So when faced with something, using alcohol is considered an acceptable method of dealing with it. It doesn't matter what your particular "something" is -- "Are you happy? Have some booze!"... "Are you sad? Have some booze!"... "Are you lonely? Have some booze!"... "Are you bored? Have some booze!"... "Don't have any booze? Get some booze!"... "Got booze?" For the majority of people this is no big deal, (we alcoholics are a minority in society, afterall, just as people who are allergic to peanuts are). For me, that was certainly what got me started. I originally saw using alcohol as no big deal. It was on about a par with eating birthday cake, the only difference being that no one cared whether or not you ate cake because cake didn't get you buzzed, (well, most cake anyway!)... At that time and in that place, drinking beer was not only considered acceptable, but it was also practically expected. Once I started using alcohol, I found that it was good, (or so I thought). It made me feel good, it provided me with social acceptance, and it also allowed a "momentary escape" from my life and the problems I was facing. I think that once a person *starts* to use alcohol, then genetic factors start coming more strongly into play. I think that the crucial difference is whether or not the "early stage adaptations" begin, as described earlier. I also think that there are certain "threshold values" which must be met for those early-stage changes to start, and that the "thresholds" are set differently for everybody. Some people are hooked by their first drink. Others don't get hooked until after years of moderate drinking. Some people, even with a genetic disposition, don't get hooked at all, (and social factors may be responsible). I know with me, the way I learned it, "...if you aren't drinking to get drunk, then you're just wasting the beer...", (did someone else's genetics turn me into an alcoholic? LOL)... Social issues may have gotten me started on saturating my system everytime I drank, but the fact remains that *I* choose to saturate my system. With me, somewhere along the way I crossed a line. I'm not sure exactly where it was, but it was pretty early. At that point social factors weren't what caused me to drink -- it was my alcoholism that did. Social factors merely condoned it, (and perhaps encouraged it). It was my alcoholism that kept me drinking, and as I progressed through the stages, kept me drinking more and more. Social factors then stopped condoning it, but that didn't stop me from drinking. Heck, I didn't even *notice* the negative social feedback! Over many years time, protecting my "right to drink" was very important to me because it was very important to my disease. I kept crossing more lines. At some point, whenever I'd go out, I simply could not get drunk enough no matter how hard I tried. I can only see this as the result of genetics and my own sad choices years earlier. I simply cannot see how there is *any* social factor which results in the phenomenon of craving, and looking back, my craving steadily increased over time, (oh how I hated wrestling with that!). Then I started to hit the third, deteriorative stage. I knew there was a serious problem, but I no longer really cared anymore. Alcoholism already had me firmly in its grip, and had for a long time. It merely turned up the heat. So, I guess the short answer is this... I think that social factors started me drinking, but that once I did chose to start, then genetic factors kicked in and kept me drinking, and drinking more and more despite any social feedback to the contrary... I agree that alcohol should be classified as a "selectively addictive drug", with its selectivity based primarily in genetics, but that social factors are what get you to *try* alcohol in the first place. Hope this makes sense. Thanks!
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I have read Under the Influence and it is a wonderful book that started my education about alcohol. I have found another and I am sure you know of it. If not then here is the title, Beyond the Influence: Understanding and Defeating Alcoholism. It is written by Katherine Ketcham and William Asbury (an admitted alcoholic). This is a wonderful fount of information as well and should be read by anyone who thinks they may have alcoholism.
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Good thread, nice to read some from that book. I just ordered a copy from Amazon, you can find one on there for a whole whopping penny. The follow up is a bit more but not by much. I'll probably order that as soon as I'm done with the first. Thanks for posting this!
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Those excerpts are fascinating. The descriptions of the genetic factors and what happens to those with a genetic predisposition seem very consistent with my own experiences. The chemical differences described should be easy to measure with a controlled study to establish solid precursor conditions scientifically. But I have never heard of any such study of tests performed by the medical community to do such. Is anyone aware if controlled studies have ever been done and why such tests are not done by the medical community? I suspect that the reason is that the correlation is not strong enough to warrant such testing. I want to get a copy of the book in either case and will try to find a cheap source to pick up a copy. Good Stuff! |
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Amazon usually has both 'Under" and it's sequel "Beyond The Influence" by Ketcham and ??? very inexpensively.
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Thanks Carol, You are always so helpful here! I managed to find a used copy in good condition on EBay for under $5 including shipping to the USA. It does have the ISBN number of 0-553-27487-2 which matches the one GreenTea posted for "Under The Influence". There are more available there by various sellers if anyone else is looking for an inexpensive copy. I can't wait to get it, I love reading stuff like this. More evidence that it is a disease and we do not have a choice in drink!! Found a good article on the effects of acetaldehyde in the human body and the differences between alcoholic and non alcoholic people. What's particularly interesting is that it apparently has dual role effects and it's presence in the brain has the reverse effect as it does peripherally in the rest of the body. The article review "Genetic polymorphism in ethanol metabolism: acetaldehyde contribution to alcohol abuse and alcoholism" is found under the Molecular Psychiatry site. |
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Perhaps the new research will eradicate addiction in the future. Wouldn't that be totally awesome? Until then...I will continue to be an AA recovered alcoholic....
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I read this sticky a few weeks back and immediately ordered the book. I read it from cover-to-cover in less than two days. As an ACOA, this book opened my eyes and my mind. The information on the genetic disposition of alcoholism was a huge eye opener for me. I had a lot of "AH-HA!" moments reading it.
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Great to read about "blackouts", I called them my black holes, missing portions of my life. That was and is the scariest part of alcohol as far as I'm concerned !! I wonder what drawer my brain put all that info in...
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I received my copy of "Under The Influence" and finished it in two days also. I had a hard time putting it down. I highlighted a lot of the text just like I did in the Big Book and I am making note of page numbers as I am going to use this as a reference. This is the most detailed fact filled description on alcoholism that I have ever seen. It literally changed my whole concept of the cause of alcoholism. Here's the clinker; every sentence and page of this book made sense immediately and I could identify with everything. No need to study it or read it a second time. If you have a drinking problem or are already an alcoholic this should considered required reading! |
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| Please check out the eating plan and supplements near the back. I did that for about 6 months and consider it instrumental with getting me back in balance ...mentally and physically. .....Hope you too will benefit.
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Thanks Carol, I definitely am more concerned about nutrition after reading the book. At sixteen months of sobriety I have episodes that are described to a "tee" under PAWS. Perhaps nutrition may be a factor. |
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Wow! Thanks so much for that. Such incredibly useful information to digest... I will be ordering the book ASAP! Perfectly describes why when me (long time moderate then turned binge drinker) and my partner (light drinker) have such different reactions to alcohol - me wanting to drink drink drink.... and keep going all night and he just to go to bed after two glasses of wine. and the blackouts, and the hangovers.... Thanks again. |
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electrickery....... ![]() Apples and orages ...for sure Good to know you will be buying this resource. "Beyond The Influence" is the sequel I've not read it but other members found it helpful.
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great posts btw thanks very much its extremely informative | |
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I don't believe there's any way, or method of treatment, to teach an alcoholic to 'drink responsibly', no. There is a way to recover though - don't drink alcohol D
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I believe they are referring to the people who continue to try & drink even though they cant drink responsibly.
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I believe it is mostly genetics that ultimately cause a person to become an alcoholic. That is, of course, my own personal opinion based on my background and my experience.
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I've just read this and am quite baffled. I'll also have to get the book. It makes me wonder if I am an alcoholic or a problem drinker/alcohol abuser. Most of my pals growing up used to go on about how they couldn't remember the night before and I would always complain that I remembered every sorid little detail of whatever I said or did. That has changed over the last few years or so. It also seems that a large proportion of my friends and the people in the community and even the culture that I grew up in are alcoholics. According to this book alcoholism is down to genetic factors. Does this mean that you can't make someone an alcoholic? Does this mean that alcohol is inherently different from other addictive drugs or are these drugs addictions also related to genes. If I give someone (or a country), say, opium that person will eventually become addicted. Is this book saying that if I constantly give someone alcohol over a long and continued period then a person with no genetic disposition to alcoholism will never become an alcoholic. Apologies if I've mis-read the excerpts or if my queries seem dumb. |
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No I think your queries are right on. Many people don't seem to agree with this stuff, but I do. Only something like 10% of the world is alcoholic. Some that have drank alcohol the longest (Jewish and Italian societies) have had the alcoholics die off until they got down to the 10%. Those that are late comers to the game (American Eskimo and Native Americans) got started with the "hard stuff" brought over by the Scottish and Irish and they've not yet had time to die off to that 10%. Their percentage is very high. So I agree. Not everybody can nor will become an alcoholic. There seems to be a fine line between the alky and the hard drinker. The hard drinker can seem to do one of two things that the real alcoholic cannot; it's an issue of control. The hard drinker can... if they really want to or if they are given a sufficient reason, control the amount they drink once they start OR can stay away from the 1st one. The alky can do neither. I am of the belief that anybody can be an addict... to drugs. And anybody can be a non-addict. Maybe there's such a thing as a real addict that separated them from the hard drug user. Maybe once addicted, they lose control like alkies do. IDK.
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Midton......glad you will be reading the book There is also a sequel ....."Beyond The Influence" As far as I am aware....there has been no absolute definite answer as to why people become addicted. There are many studies....concepts...ideas ...and new research continues to seek the answers. Regardless of how one becomes addicted to alcohol abstience will improve your life. Alcohol damages your brain and body...even those who are not addicted. Congratulations on your new sobriety..... I certainly hope you will find a way to enjoy a healthy productive future without useing mind altering substances. All my best....
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