Message Boards and Forums Directory

Go Back   SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information > Alcoholism Information > Alcoholism-12 Step Support
Forgot Password? Join Us!
Register Blogs FAQ Calendar Arcade Mark Forums Read Chat Room [6]


Welcome to the Sober Recovery Community

Already registered? Login above ---^

OR

To take advantage of all the site’s features, become a member of the supportive Sober Recovery Community. Ads will no longer appear on the forums if you are a registered user



Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 11-05-2009, 01:24 PM   #1 (permalink)
Member
 
Ninsuna's Avatar
 

Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Northern California
Posts: 204
Question New secretary here

The women's group I attend elected a new secretary last night...me. I'm grateful and honoured and touched they gave me this, I knew I wanted a service position eventually but wasn't expecting it this soon.

So my question is, what advice do ya'll have? What do good secretaries do? I am especially concerned with finding/approaching chairpersons each week whose share can inspire the group.
We have a few who sit at the same table and talk and giggle a lot while others are speaking. Is it the secretaries' job to address stuff like that?


I keep telling myself these are savvy women who know what they were doing when they picked me, but I am having a wee little freakout.

Thanks in advance for the help.
Ninsuna is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 01:28 PM   #2 (permalink)
Member
 
Charmie's Avatar
 

Join Date: Jan 2009
Posts: 1,322
i dont have any advice for you,our meetings are done differently here in the Uk.however i would like to say congrats and thanks for your service.
Charmie is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 02:00 PM   #3 (permalink)
Member
 
Dime's Avatar
 

Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 1,117
Congratulations!

From what I know of here it varies by club. Sometimes the role is pretty much the classic role of a secretary and in others there is considerably more responsibility. Some will have written By-Laws explaining all the roles of the board members. It is a great opportunity to learn how the club functions.
Dime is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 02:22 PM   #4 (permalink)
Member
 

Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Southern Colorado
Posts: 1,174
I am the secretary of my group and have been in most every group that I've belonged to. Why? IDK. Maybe it's my willingness to do two things... take the minutes in our group conscience and maintain our groups' phone list. That's all I do really.

An example of our minutes off the top of my head;

How It Works Group Conscience (held last Monday of the month). Date:

Chaired by: ____________
Tradition of that month Long Form read by: __________

Minutes from last month read by me, a motion to accept by ______, 2nded by_____ and passed by group Y/N.

Treasure's report given by; Acting Tresurer, the rent paid for ____ month, and the Prudent Reserve left over. (IF coffee or supplies or books need to be purchased, that's arranged. At the end of the year, we move excess money up to the local CSO for our area which serves Southern Colorado (in Pueblo). They have us listed in the area meeting list and that brings us people to our meeting listed as a Closed A.A. meeting.

Treasurer's Report is read by the treasurer, a motion to accept by ______, 2nded by_____ and passed by group Y/N.

New business;

We go around the room and see if anyone has any new business to bring up. If not, I say NNT for No New Topic.

Then we go around and vote whether to discuss any topics brought up. If we vote to discuss we go around the room and discuss the topic on the table. If necessary, we make a motion for the group to vote on. We vote. If necessary, we discuss minority opinion, then vote again. If it wins, the motion is put into effect. If not, things stay the same.

We adjourn with the Lord's Prayer and the next month, it all happens again.

__________________________________________________ ___________

The A.A. Service Manual says something about this on page S60;

Secretary Qualifications: "Reasonable period of sobriety" may mean 2 years in an area where A.A. is still young, four or five years in an older area.

Sense of order. Taking minutes... sifting through thousands of words... looking for the "kernel".

So a secretary can be the maker of popcorn? Hmmm...

Just suit up, show up, and do your best... and bring your pen and paper. You'll do fine!
McGowdog is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 02:24 PM   #5 (permalink)
Member
 
Clutch B's Avatar
 

Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: USA
Posts: 354
Is the previous Secretary still around? Usually people are happy to shadow with you until you get on your feet.

Congrats on the position!

Recovery, Unity, Service ...

Clutch B is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 02:40 PM   #6 (permalink)
boleon
 
Boleo's Avatar
 

Join Date: May 2008
Location: Detroit, MI
Posts: 3,123
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ninsuna View Post
We have a few who sit at the same table and talk and giggle a lot while others are speaking. Is it the secretaries' job to address stuff like that?
Don't confuse being a secretary with being a chair-person. IMO a secretary is active only in the Group Conscious meetings.
__________________


>>> If it makes sense - It ain't spiritual!

- All Big Book quotes are from first Edition -
Boleo is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 03:00 PM   #7 (permalink)
Member
 

Join Date: May 2004
Location: Upstate New York
Posts: 1,547
Quote:
Originally Posted by Ninsuna View Post
The women's group I attend elected a new secretary last night...me. I'm grateful and honoured and touched they gave me this, I knew I wanted a service position eventually but wasn't expecting it this soon. .
Congratulations, that's awesome -- and you should give yourself credit both for the willingness to take this on and for the fact that your homegroup members endorse you in doing so!


Quote:
Originally Posted by Ninsuna View Post
So my question is, what advice do ya'll have? What do good secretaries do? I am especially concerned with finding/approaching chairpersons each week whose share can inspire the group.
We have a few who sit at the same table and talk and giggle a lot while others are speaking. Is it the secretaries' job to address stuff like that?.
Around here, the secretary typically reads the group announcements (upcoming events, reports/requests/policies from group conscience, anything that people might need to know about the meeting facility, etc...) and recognizes anniversaries and guests or newcomers to the meeting. Most of the meetings around here have a separate position for Speaker Seeker / Talker Stalker / whatever you want to call it....because that can get to be a pretty big job if you have to find one every week. And, yes, it usually does end up falling to the secretary to "take care of" people who can't/don't respect the guidelines for appropriate behavior as set by the group conscience.

As Clutch said, the person you're taking over from is probably the best person to go for advice/guidance....and if you find out that the group doesn't have a clear understanding as to what exactly your duties are, then it might be a good idea to request a group conscience to establish that, because it will definitely make your life easier!


Quote:
Originally Posted by Ninsuna View Post
I keep telling myself these are savvy women who know what they were doing when they picked me, but I am having a wee little freakout.
Ask for help and do your best -- you just need to be a trusted servant, not an infallible ruler!

freya
__________________
Working the Steps isn't about me acquiring power; working the Steps is about removing the things that block me from being a channel for God's Power.
freya is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 03:07 PM   #8 (permalink)
Member
 
Ninsuna's Avatar
 

Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Northern California
Posts: 204
Perhaps I should be more clear about what I mean by secretary here. We call the person responsible for running a particular meeting (getting the doors open, making coffee, starting the meeting with the preamble and announcements) the secretary. My home group has 3-5 meetings a day, depending on the day of the week. Every secretary is obliged to attend the "business meeting" once a month, but I am not referring to an elected position within that body. I am only responsible for running a weekly women's meeting. Am I making sense here? Sorry for the confusion, I think in different areas we may use different terminology.
__________________
"The calm ones will get it done, and it's the brave that will overcome." -One eskimO
Ninsuna is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 03:20 PM   #9 (permalink)
Member
 
Ninsuna's Avatar
 

Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Northern California
Posts: 204
Quote:
Originally Posted by freya View Post
Around here, the secretary typically reads the group announcements (upcoming events, reports/requests/policies from group conscience, anything that people might need to know about the meeting facility, etc...) and recognizes anniversaries and guests or newcomers to the meeting. Most of the meetings around here have a separate position for Speaker Seeker / Talker Stalker / whatever you want to call it....because that can get to be a pretty big job if you have to find one every week. And, yes, it usually does end up falling to the secretary to "take care of" people who can't/don't respect the guidelines for appropriate behavior as set by the group conscience.
freya
Thanks, Freya. It sounds like we do things much the same as you, but we don't have a separate person to "talker stalk" each week and that is the part that gives me most concern. BTW, any women planning to be in my neck of the woods on a Wed night, PM me! lol. Seriously...PM me...please.
__________________
"The calm ones will get it done, and it's the brave that will overcome." -One eskimO
Ninsuna is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 03:22 PM   #10 (permalink)
Member
 
Dime's Avatar
 

Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 1,117
I am the secretary of a group and in this particular group the secretary is responsible to make sure that we have a chairperson selected for the month, a leader, chips, a literature person and a coffee person. I also make sure that the chairperson and leader and if not find another chairperson and leader prior to the meeting start. There is no note keeping in my function.
Dime is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 03:23 PM   #11 (permalink)
Living in sobriety
 
nelco's Avatar
 

Join Date: Feb 2009
Posts: 3,868
I am sec in my group and I.....

arrive before everyone else. set up the room (usually with the help of members)

pick up milk and cakes/cookies en route. (comes out of funds,)

make sure literature is on display, steps are hung on wall. put up slogans.

Organize speaker from week to week. I travel to other meetings also and if I like someone's share..... I invite them to our group to share their ESH. if there is a member visiting your group, you could invite them back to share..

I also have a list of speakers I collected over the years

sounds a lot but its not......and if you are lucky enough to come from a strong group like I do, you will have lots of members helping you.

collect post and post up on notice board any upcoming convention info etc.

start the meeting......read the preamble, have someone read a piece from big book.... Introduce speaker. ...floor shares....pass basket around for tradition 7......more sharing....thank speaker..someone reads promises...I then read tradition 12......finish the meeting with the serenity prayer and the lords prayer (for those who wish)

I live in Ireland.....and it seems to vary from group to group and area to area. plus every group autonomous...but your group format sounds a lot like mine.
nelco is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 03:46 PM   #12 (permalink)
Member
 
Tommyh's Avatar
 

Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: N.C.
Posts: 18,391
thats good for you to do the job.Great!
I would just stick with the usual format during the meetings.Once you get it started,it usually takes care of itself.
i will say one thing my group likes

start on time,and stop on time
and
The older members will probably help out if something weird happens.
Tommyh is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-05-2009, 03:59 PM   #13 (permalink)
same planet...different world
 
barb dwyer's Avatar
 

Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: butte mt
Posts: 10,933
Blog Entries: 7
I'm our District Secretary, I've pm'd you some info I found online that helped me a LOT ... the job of secretary, I've come to learn, was the first paid job in the history of aa. She was a non-alcoholic, and only took the job as a temp to save up $$$ to go to mexico and study art or something.

It's in one of the commemorative grapevine issues.

Anyhoo - depending on your group - the secretary is the keeper of all the records. The secretary does all correspondence, takes the minutes of the business meeitngs, and in some groups - is even the trusted servant who arranges and calls for the business meetings.

welcome aboard! hope this and what I sent ya helps!
__________________
Knowledge is knowing that tomato is a fruit. Wisdom is not putting it in fruit salad.
barb dwyer is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-06-2009, 06:51 AM   #14 (permalink)
Forum Leader
 
CarolD's Avatar
 

Join Date: Jun 2002
Location: Serene In Dixie
Posts: 34,835
how exciteing for you.....
__________________


Each Day Sober Is A Victory!!
Joy In AA Recovery!


CarolD is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-07-2009, 08:24 AM   #15 (permalink)
Disposable Hero
 
Wolfchild's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Being, ME
Posts: 3,758
Blog Entries: 3
Anytime someone accepts a responsibilty to help carry a message of recovery, it's like fireworks in my heart!

Thank you for helping us to strengthen our gratitude for our fellowship by your desire & willingness to serve!!
__________________
Any clean addict is a miracle and keeping the miracle alive
is an ongoing process of awareness, surrender, and growth
Wolfchild is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 08:56 AM   #16 (permalink)
Member
 
Pagekeeper's Avatar
 

Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 574
I'm the secretary for my home group. My responsabilities are similar to what McDog wrote. I'm the notetaker. I read the minutes. I make changes to the format when necessary. I make sure the format reads "smoothly," and is spelled correctly, no typos, etc. I keep hard copies of the different meeting formats on a disc along with other important info. Last month I had to go back through the minutes and see what the group had decided months ago for expenses for a certain event. I emailed this info to the treasurer, GSR, and chair so that a few people knew and not just one. Sometimes discussions can get heated and complicated. This is when good listening skills and the ability to summarize the main points come in handy.
__________________
All Big Book quotes taken from Alcoholics Anonymous 1st Ed.
Pagekeeper is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Old 11-08-2009, 09:03 AM   #17 (permalink)
mergirl
 
Gypsy Feet's Avatar
 

Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Paradise
Posts: 3,780
Blog Entries: 4
no advice, but the wee little freak out made me giggle
__________________

*~Lisa~*
ban the deed, not the breed~
three years of continuous sobriety and counting
<3 (its a sideways heart!)
Gypsy Feet is offline  
Digg this Post!Add Post to del.icio.usBookmark Post in TechnoratiTweet this Post!
Reply With Quote
Reply

Bookmarks


Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off



All times are GMT -7. The time now is 10:47 PM.


 
National Drug and Alcohol Treatment Centers
 
Drug Rehab | Best Treatment Center | Detox Center | Treatment Center | Cocaine Treatment | Alcohol Rehab | Heroin Treatment Center | Oxycontin Treatment Center | Crystal Meth Treatment
 
Local Treatment Resources and Events
 
Alabama | Alaska | Arizona | Arkansas | California | Colorado | Connecticut | DC | Delaware | Florida | Georgia | Hawaii | Idaho | Illinois | Indiana | Iowa | Kansas Kentucky | Louisiana | Maine | Maryland | Massachusetts | Michigan | Minnesota | Mississippi Missouri | Montana | Nebraska | Nevada | New Hampshire
New Jersey | New Mexico | New York | North Carolina | North Dakota Ohio | Oklahoma | Oregon | Pennsylvania | Rhode Island | South Carolina | South Dakota Tennesee | Texas Utah | Vermont Virginia | Washington | West Virginia | Wisconsin | Wyoming

© 2011 Recovery Marketing Services, Inc.
A proud member of the SoberRecovery® Network of Addiction and Recovery Websites

The SoberRecovery Forums are operated under an anonymous grant and is maintained by MyNew Technologies Development


1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26 27 28 29 30 31 32 33 34 35 36 37 38 39 40 41 42 43 44 45 46 47 48 49 50 51 52 53 54 55 56 57 58 59 60 61 62 63 64 65 66 67 68 69 70 71 72 73 74 75 76 77 78 79 80 81 82 83 84 85 86 87 88 89 90 91 92 93 94 95 96 97 98 99 100 101 102 103 104 105 106 107 108 109 110 111 112