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Old 05-20-2009, 09:18 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Changing Anything

Each morning, I get up and go outside to our porch. I love to have my coffee, smell the air and the fresh cut grass and listen to the birds. I do my best thinking during this time or so I tell myself; meditation and prayer are also part of this wondrous quiet time. My garage sits right behind our house and the locals birds love to perch and chat on the apex of the roof as the sun comes up. Some mornings, I vainly try to elbow my way into their conversations so I whistle along thinking they will react and make me a part of their fun; I am still whistling alone.

Yesterday morning, a rather large and mangy crow stopped off to run the cardinals, robins and sparrows away. He was loud and obnoxious as crows can be, though he preened as if it was somehow just his nature to be an ass. Sitting in my chair on the porch, I made a decision to use my metal powers to run this cocky bird off, so I sent him a thought wave to shoo him from my garage roof. He didn't move. So I tried again, harder and with more focus. Nothing happened. He then crapped on my roof and flew away.


Whenever I attempt to control, change or direct people, places and things, I usually receive the same negative results. Here is the catch for me at least; I know that each attempt to control, change or direct is useless, but I choose not to heed my own good lessons with the added indignity that I will look like in short order the roof under that crow's feet.


"God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,

Courage to change the things that I can,

And the wisdom to know the difference."
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Old 05-20-2009, 09:39 AM   #2 (permalink)
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So oftentimes it happens that we live our lives in chains and we never even know we have the key.
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Old 05-20-2009, 10:59 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Some days when I am frustrated, I still pray for a sign that I am not facing my challenges alone, that everything will be okay. Of course, I never get that sign when I ask for it.

Yesterday, I went for a mountain bike ride down the nature trails by my home. I stopped by the lake to pray - for my family, for strength, nothing more. As I started praying, a huge golden eagle flew out of the tree beside me.

Of course, my human mind calls this coincidence. At the same time, I feel like the Creator is thinking "Don, what more can I do?"

Simple acceptance of the gifts I am given.
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Old 05-21-2009, 05:47 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Thanks Rufus. It's simple, isn't it?
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Yes, Paul it is. How then does it continue to be the most difficult single action in the recovering Alcoholic's life?

Simple! Personal Power; much decision here and in meetings between Sponsors and their men and women comes down to the right use of willpower. Nothing else in my mind has more importance after the Drunk stops drinking. Without a clear understanding and then a willingness to surrender all personal power, will the Alcoholic find a greater Power and then experience the Psychic change. How can one get to a Higher Power if they refuse to pick up the key of willingness and embrace surrender as the truest remedy to a past life of pain and suffering.

This is my most important goal; keeping it simple, and teaching how it works because without simplicity and a clear path to how it works, Drunks will continue to be unnecessarily disillusioned over our message and our purpose.
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Old 05-21-2009, 06:11 AM   #7 (permalink)
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i gotta keep it simple.. good message!
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