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Old 04-30-2009, 12:06 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Time to call the wahhh-mublance

solution oriented
not nitpicking

focused on our primary purpose
not getting our egotistical points across

carrying the message of recovery
not bickering about how we do that, why we do that, or what that message is

placing principles before personalities
not getting twisted about someone else's plan for their life

love and TOLERANCE being our code
not knocking down others' ideas on recovery

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i've just read so many AA members who seem like they work (or they would work) solid programs showin out. AA's not about that, not in my sobriety family or my meetings. i know we've all got defects, myself included (and maybe in the lead!), but the last thing i want to do is scare someone off from recovery. there are shining examples on this board of folks who manage to carry the message without getting defensive or controlling or snotty, and i look to them for my inspiration when i read something that i take as inflammatory.

basically, man up - sometimes we are the only big book someone will ever see. i don't wanna call the wahh-mbulance, but i fully will.

on a completely unrelated sidenote, some friends and i were talking about how much fun it would be to share in a meeting sometime using only grateful dead lyrics... totally possible, too. so far, i've got "hi, i'm emily, and i'm an alcoholic... y'know, it's hard to see the silver lining sometimes when all i can see is a touch of grey. some days i'm ridin that train, but i know there's trouble ahead. usually, trouble behind. i just know i better watch my speed. everyday isn't going to be sunshine daydreams, but i'm feelin fine. i will get by. WE will get by. thanks." now, those are lyrics from radio tracks, but i listen to this terrible classic rock station on my way to and from work, so those are the ones that are freshest in my brain. you try!
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Old 04-30-2009, 03:05 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I couldn't decided what lyrics to use (from the song) so I just linked the song. Lol. And it could be seen in the spirit of Step 10...

YouTube - Billy Joel- You' re only human (Second wind)

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Old 04-30-2009, 03:59 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I cannot resist

Gone are the days I stopped to decide where I should go, now I just ride.
Gone are the broken eyes I saw through in dreams gone, both dream and lie.
Life may be sweeter for this, I don't know. Feels like it might be alright.

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Old 05-01-2009, 06:34 AM   #4 (permalink)
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well apparently folks aren't into my thread. alright then.

thanks for playing, adam!
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Old 05-01-2009, 06:37 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I am into your thread.
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Old 05-01-2009, 06:49 AM   #6 (permalink)
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well good! care to try to take on the challenge?
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Old 05-01-2009, 06:52 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I am not very familiar with their work, sorry. LOL
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Old 05-01-2009, 07:08 AM   #8 (permalink)
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How about...

If I ventured in the slipstream
Between the viaducts of your dream
Where immobile steel rims crack
And the ditch in the back roads stop
Could you find me?
Would you kiss-a my eyes?
To lay me down
In silence easy
To be born again
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Old 05-01-2009, 07:36 AM   #9 (permalink)
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Not familiar with Grateful Dead songs. How about Metallica? A beginners meeting, sharing about step 1:

Hi my name is Don & I'm an alcoholic:

End of passion play, crumbling away
I'm your source of self-destruction
Veins that pump with fear, sucking darkest clear
Leading on your death's construction

Taste me you will see
More is all you need
Dedicated to
How I'm killing you

Come crawling faster
Obey your master
Your life burns faster
Obey your master
Master

Master of puppets, I'm pulling your strings
Twisting your mind and smashing your dreams
Blinded by me, you can't see a thing
Just call my name 'cause I'll hear you scream
Master
Master


Man that's dark. Sorta like a heavy metal "Doctors Opinion."

"Keep coming back" indeed.

Okay, my five minutes is up.
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Master of puppets, I'm pulling your strings
Twisting your mind and smashing your dreams
Blinded by me, you can't see a thing

Wow!
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Old 05-01-2009, 07:47 AM   #11 (permalink)
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DON'T get me started with The Grateful Dead... It has been as much about the lyrics for me as the music... Yea, the penultimate jam band... none better. But, their lyrics have been under-rated... I've always loved...

Right outside this lazy summer home
You aint got time to call your soul a critic no.
Right outside the lazy gate of winters summer home,
Wondrin where the nut-thatch winters,
Wings a mile long just carried the bird away.

Wake up to find out that you are the eyes of the world,
The heart has its beaches, its homeland and thoughts of its own.
Wake now, discover that you are the song that the mornin brings,
But the heart has its seasons, its evenins and songs
of its own.

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Old 05-01-2009, 08:23 AM   #12 (permalink)
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i like the idea of a death metal dr.'s opinion. honestly, i think bill w. would've too, he seemed pretty hardcore...

i love that song, mark. i think the main reason i love the grateful dead is their lyrics, y'know? how mad can you be when you're hearing "nothing left to do but smile, smile, smile... "? yeah. like "brown eyed girl", who's unhappy when that comes on? seriously.
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Old 05-01-2009, 08:26 AM   #13 (permalink)
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It was Astral Weeks, Em.

Brown eyed girl is good too...
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DON'T get me started with The Grateful Dead... It has been as much about the lyrics for me as the music... Yea, the penultimate jam band... none better. But, their lyrics have been under-rated... I've always loved...

Right outside this lazy summer home
You aint got time to call your soul a critic no.
Right outside the lazy gate of winters summer home,
Wondrin where the nut-thatch winters,
Wings a mile long just carried the bird away.

Wake up to find out that you are the eyes of the world,
The heart has its beaches, its homeland and thoughts of its own.
Wake now, discover that you are the song that the mornin brings,
But the heart has its seasons, its evenins and songs
of its own.

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Sometimes the songs that we hear are just songs of our own....
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I told you not to get me started... I always liked this line in Mississippi Half Step Uptown Toodleloo...

If all you got to live for
is what you left behind
get yourself a powder charge
and seal that silver mine

Seems appropriate somehow

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In the strangest of places

Ok Em, you asked for it:

Once in a while you get shown the light, in the strangest of places if you look at it right

Sums up how I found God quite nicely, I love Robert Hunter's lyrics.
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I'm not a dead head either, perfect circle is my addiction band of choice. I could for sure do a whole meeting with their lyrics. My name is Lisa, once upon a time I felt like this:

Little angel go away
Come again some other day
The devil has my ear today
I'll never hear a word you say
He promised I would find a little solace and some peace of mind
Whatever just as long as I don't feel so...

Desperate and ravenous
I'm so weak and powerless over you
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Once in a while you get shown the light, in the strangest of places if you look at it right
Scarlet Begonias, right?... good!

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Now I am actually getting excited. Only 8 short days.

Tour Show | Grateful Dead
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I love this thread!!!!!!!!
I will be back to play after work!!!
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Never really got into the Dead. Now Van Morrison, he's my main man.
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Here ya go, Jim...

"Don't want to discuss it / I think it's time for a change / You may get disgusted / And start thinkin' that I'm actin' strange / In that case I'll go underground / Get some heavy rest / Never have to worry / About what is worst and what is best . . . hit it

Oh, oh Domino..."
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Robert Hunter is an amazing lyricist

and what is that thing Bobby does with his head? LOL

I saw thirty some Dead shows between the years of 1986 and 1991

I may come back to this thread with some lyrics.

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small world

My Grandparents live in Indianapolis,I have an Aunt and Uncle who live in Noblesville, home of Deer Creek Amphitheatre, I saw a lot of shows there, great venue.
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Here ya go, Jim...

"Don't want to discuss it / I think it's time for a change / You may get disgusted / And start thinkin' that I'm actin' strange / In that case I'll go underground / Get some heavy rest / Never have to worry / About what is worst and what is best . . . hit it

Oh, oh Domino..."
I've got about everything Van has put out, with the exception of his latest stuff. My favorites are "Moondance," "Saint Dominic's Preview," and the killer live LP "It's Too Late To Stop Now."

I just like good music. Jeff Buckley's "Hallelujah" is another one that is in heavy rotation.
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