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| Is AA a cult?
I was reading comments about AA posted on a mental health website (after stumbling across it the other night), and was shocked at the number and content of the many negative comments about AA. Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) is a Cult ? - Alcohol & Substance Abuse & Addiction So the next night, I started to compose my own comment to post on the blog. It got a little long, but I submitted it anyway, and the guy whose website it is posted it as a standalone essay. Thought you might find it interesting. "I have benefited from AA and the 12 Steps... Very much so!" - Alcohol & Substance Abuse & Addiction |
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| Thumper Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Los Angeles Ca
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Did you feel AA needed defending? I think a lot of the criticism of AA is very warranted, I probably complain about AA as much as anyone - and it saved my life! You wrote a nice piece though...thank you for sharing it. In theory, the PhD is threatened financially by a 'free' program of recovery - though in reality, most people end up at the shrinks long before they ever get to AA (at least was the case with myself). - so it makes sense that his board would be a little bit anti-AA.
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| Codaholic Alcodependant Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Phoenix, AZ, in a home filled with love
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Excellent essay Harrison, I thoroughly enjoyed reading your thoughts. Thank you for sharing!
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| Life the gift of recovery! Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Home is where the heart is
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| What is important to me is that the program saved my life and has helped me to become a better, more productive, happier person. If it took a cult, a religion, or a self-help program, or a spiritual program it is irrelevant to me. What is sad is that there are people who feel the need to judge the program and try to put it into a neat little category. My experience has been that the majority of negativity that surrounds AA seems to come from people who either have never tried AA or have come into AA and expected to get it by osmosis rather than putting one foot in front of the other and doing the work as it is laid out in the book then turn around and blame AA for not getting them sober. AA is a program of action, each individual has a responsiblity to do the work if they want to stay or get sober. Any program of recovery requires participation from the individual for it to work. It is fortunate that there are other recovery programs out there that do work. I did find this interesting Quote:
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Hmm... Call AA whatever you choose Religion ...cult....program. I promise to keep the door open for anyone interested in coming in.
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Amen.
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| Follow Directions! Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Fredericksburg, Va.
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If AA is a cult it has to be one of the oddest cults of all, think about it, how many cults have you heard of that: 1. You can beleive or not beleive in a HP of your choice. 2. You can quit with no backlash from members. 3. You can quit and come back as often as you like with no backlash from members. 4. You can follow the suggestions if you wish or not. 5. You can attend drunk as a skunk for years. 6. You can put money in the basket or not. 7. There are no rules. BTW that was a well written essay.
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| Om, Aum, Ohm... Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Punxsutawney/Pittsburgh
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Best thing I ever did in early sobriety was to read all I could about "AA Deprogramming." What I learned from those sites was a) the difference between program and fellowship (all fellowship does not act in accordance with program), b) that not all sponsors offer to sponsor out of a 12th step sense of responsibility -- some have big egos to feed, and they feed them newcomers, and c) that it's not only okay but critical to ask questions in order to determine if a) or b) apply. After all - God gave us brains to use. 90% of the folks I've met in the rooms who'd been around awhile are purveyors of the message. Almost always, when folks start talking "cults," they're talking about the actions of the other 10%. If someone tells you that "You'll never stay sober unless you come over and put a new roof on my barn," there's a good chance you've fallen in with the 10%. If, on the other hand, someone says to you, "I know you're having a hard time financially. I have some stuff around the house that needs to be done, and I pay $10/hr," you've probably stumbled across someone who understands that we alcoholics need to pay our own way and learn responsibility. Just an example... Peace & Love, Sugah
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I have noticed that most people who think AA is a cult are people that... A) Have never been or have only been to one AA meeting. B) I knew a woman where her mother is an alcoholic and when she went to AA she disregarded her entire family and spent every waking moment doing something AA related. (I supposed she simply skipped the chapter titled "The Family Afterward") The daughter thought AA was a cult, but she never bothered to go to Al-anon meetings, or wanted to educate herself on what AA actually is. C) Went to a AA meeting that WAS NOT following the program, hence wasn't truly an AA meeting. D) Are resentful against AA because it work for them. Basically most people who think AA is a cult are people who simply don't know AA and know absolutely nothing about the program. I heard someone say once, "Someone warned me that AA was going to brainwash me. I replied brain washed? I need my brain scrubbed with bleach!" My one sentence definition of AA... AA- A 12 step program that can get you sober, and make you a better person. Tom |
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| Retired Pro Drunk Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Saint Paul, MN
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| Maybe it is. So what? Quote: Here's a couple of those definitions: "a group or sect bound together by veneration of the same thing, person, ideal, etc. " And "A usually nonscientific method or regimen claimed by its originator to have exclusive or exceptional power in curing a particular disease." One could argue that AA falls into one or more definitions of the term, "cult." I think what's more of an issue is whether a "cult" is a bad thing or not. The media portrays any "cult" in a very negative light. Thus, the general public has adopted this opinion. Cults are bad. Really, any religion could be defined as a cult. It's a very nonspecific word. Read the definitions for yourself. Not all have negative connotations. For me, whether AA could be described as a cult or not is irrelevent. | |
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| Member | Cult - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia The above is the "definition" of cult from wikepedia. Funny enough, they mention AA. For me, the actual word "cult" has such a negative conotation...and AA has been nothing but positive for me. So, for me...it matters not if some people think its a "cult". For me, its simply a free program that loves and accepts me and wants to help me stay sober.
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But you are right. In the end there is a valid argument that AA may be considered a cult under definition number 4 of the definitions I linked to. So, if AA is a cult according to definition number 4 (sobriety being the object of veneration), I say cults are a good thing! And Julie, yup, it appears unless you are talking about cult film fans, etc. the word has developed a negative connotation when in reality a cult is not necessarily a bad thing. I claim caffeine intoxication as being behind my last post. ![]() I want to make another funny, but out of respect to those that died in Waco and in Jonestown, I won't. |
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I also love the person who said brainwashing? I need mine scrubbed with bleach!
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"cult" is shorthand for "culture". We are everyday bombarded by cults which we sign on for: the word cult itself is harmless. Examples of cults: The American Medical association Any Support group Retirement planniing AA is a culture of recovery. The AMA is a culture of one model of healing Retirement is one culture of planning stages of one's life. People need to understand language a bit more clearly and be less fearful of the mass hype.
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__________________ ![]() I don't know what happens when people die Can't seem to grasp it as hard as I try It's like a song I can hear playing right in my ear That I can't sing I can't help listening ~JB |
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nandm, thanks for posting the list from factnet. Those who have been in a real cult (as defined by Singer, Lifton et al) know the difference between AA and a real cult. In fact, the author of the book "AA: Cult or Cure?" wanted to prove AA was a cult, and yet using the Lifton model ended up disproving his own theory.
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