Christmas Eve
Christmas Eve
While my mom hasn't openly drank a lot in front of me since I got sober, I can always tell that she's on something. Becoming sober seems to make you hyper aware of other people's drinking and drugging.
But yesterday was different. My mom was openly going through a huge bottle of red wine almost completely on her own. My sister in law has had some issues with drinking and joined my mom. I sat back and watched as they had a conversation about which prescription drugs you can get over the counter in Canada and how you can really take quite a lot more than what the bottle says you can. WTF?!
On another note, my parents are getting us kids together to discuss their will this week. We never have in the past but my dad is in his seventies and with no surprise my mom has medical issues. My mom gets tears in her eyes whenever she discusses us going over the will and it makes me feel guilty for rarely seeing her. But then she gets sloshed and encourages others to over do it on prescription drugs and all the resentment comes back.
But yesterday was different. My mom was openly going through a huge bottle of red wine almost completely on her own. My sister in law has had some issues with drinking and joined my mom. I sat back and watched as they had a conversation about which prescription drugs you can get over the counter in Canada and how you can really take quite a lot more than what the bottle says you can. WTF?!
On another note, my parents are getting us kids together to discuss their will this week. We never have in the past but my dad is in his seventies and with no surprise my mom has medical issues. My mom gets tears in her eyes whenever she discusses us going over the will and it makes me feel guilty for rarely seeing her. But then she gets sloshed and encourages others to over do it on prescription drugs and all the resentment comes back.
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Luckily the three of us kids are level headed and we get along well. The will is completely set out for three equal shares. Hopefully we won't have to deal with it for many more years but at least it's out on the table.
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