How long has she been with this new guy? She may just be stroking his ego right now....he may be somewhat jealous of you. Believe me...I've gone through the divorce/custody thing in court and it is not fun.
Just remember.....YOU and only you are YOUR kids FATHER! Noone can take that place, even if you have a past. There are laws and you have parental rights. No court will be unfair to you nor her, esp if you are staying clean.
There are so many dead beat dads out there....it is enlightening for a Judge to see a Dad who really loves and cares about their kids and want to be a part of their life.
Dont let her scare you....and remember YOU have rights just as much as she does!!!!!!! Actually @ 50%!!!! Just stay clean and I really dont believe you have anything to worry about!!!! (At least from my experience....all that dirt goes in one ear of the judge and out the other as long as the kids are in a safe loving environment). Judges are used to divorced couples trying to one up each other!!!!
Maybe go online and check on custody rights for the state she is now living in so you kinda have an idea. Then when you talk to her....you can rattle some of them off. Maybe she will back down a little.
Just please stay clean....just so she cant use that against you. It doesnt matter what you used to do as long as you can prove what you are doing now for the sake of your kids.
Hope I helped a little!!
Much Love DG
