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OttawaAddict · 07-19-2006, 02:53 PM

thanks for the advice, since she left, I did everything i could to keep the courts out of it, even paying her 10 grand a month in cash (which she would promptly blow through) I never said no to anything she wanted.

But now she crossed the line, if she told me today i could see the kids, how could i believe her, she told me that last time and i travelled up there for nothing. Court is the last place i want to go but without my kids I have nothing.

Although im secretly hoping that she will rewalize how serious i am when the first court papers arrive and we can work it out. She knows as well as i do that a court fight will not benefit either of us. I guess its only a matter of how far she's willing to go to push me out of the kids lives.

If she had done this while i was on drugs, I could understand it, but to do it now, theres only one reason and thats the new daddy. She's insane if she thinks i'll let that happen.

07-19-2006, 02:53 PM	#3 (permalink)
OttawaAddict Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Ottawa Posts: 9	thanks for the advice, since she left, I did everything i could to keep the courts out of it, even paying her 10 grand a month in cash (which she would promptly blow through) I never said no to anything she wanted. But now she crossed the line, if she told me today i could see the kids, how could i believe her, she told me that last time and i travelled up there for nothing. Court is the last place i want to go but without my kids I have nothing. Although im secretly hoping that she will rewalize how serious i am when the first court papers arrive and we can work it out. She knows as well as i do that a court fight will not benefit either of us. I guess its only a matter of how far she's willing to go to push me out of the kids lives. If she had done this while i was on drugs, I could understand it, but to do it now, theres only one reason and thats the new daddy. She's insane if she thinks i'll let that happen.