[Done_With_It]

Hey there,

Just wanted to give you a big welcome to SR! Glad you are here.
I don't have any e,s, h, in your position, I was always more so
in your kids position. But Congrats on being clean.

If there is anyway you can try talking to your X, instead of
going the court route, I would highly suggest that.
Court is hard for all, but especially the kids.
'Destroying' your X isn't only going to destroy her, It will
destroy the kids more so.

If court is the only resort, try and keep the kids out of it
as much as possible.

Just my 2 cents.

Again, Welcome to SR, I'm glad you are here.