When I was in active addiction {Vicoden} our sex life really suffered! Seems I was in a little world of my own and getting my gratification from the pills!
After I got clean and my health back, our sex life really took off {woohoo!!
} and seems we could not get enough of each other! LOL! My whole attitude had changed and along with feeling so impowered from conquering my addiction, I also felt more comfortable with him!
Now, 2-years {as of tomorrow!!} later, it seems to have calmed down some but I still manage to put a smile on hubbys face at least once a week or so!! {hehe!!
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My advice...Get clean FIRST for you, then work on your marriage. Things usually seem to fall into place when we are in a better place mentally and physically and remember, a little honesty goes a long way! I can't stress enough how important it is to talk, really talk and that in itself often brings you closer!
God Bless!!