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Arura...have there been any major (or semi-major events or stress) happen in his life recently?

Did he recently go off the steriods or have the dose reduced?

From the tiny bit you've told me it sound very familiar and he's likely going through a major depressive episode. Get him to see a pychiatrist AND a general doc as soon as possible and have him start learning about depression.

Most true depressives arn't unipolar (meaning that depression is the only thing they have to deal with...and no other mental illness issues). But rather the depression is usually what makes people seek medical attention so they assume that the depression is the sole problem. There could be a variety of things that may need ruled out...and many physical.

It's usually easiest to rule out the physical possiblilites first...so a full work-up at the general doc is recommended. This will rule out thyroid problems and other. Also...if he snores...he could have sleep apnea also...diabeties can cause depression and fatigue kinds of problems.

I'm too tired myself to think of anything more for now, but I will try to check back in tomorrow evening if I can.

No matter what...don't put it all on your shoulders...he is an adult and can still do some things for himself to get better. And any excersize (even doing the dishes or taking out the trash) will be much better for his current situation than doing nothing at all. However....there were many days that I couldn't push myself any more than just going to the bathroom and back to bed.

Hugs and God Bless,
Remember to "Let Go and Let God" ...