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He may be only fooling himself by going into rehab thinking he can avoid his court responsibilities. But it's just that, HIS responsibilities for him to deal with. You sound like a very stronge person who's putting tuff love in place. I know you want the best for your son and going to jail sounds so hard and scary, but it may be just what he needs. My ex fiance could not beleive his mother or brothers would not bail him out. He made several calls to his mother, of course many of them yelling and screaming at her for "doing this to him", but she stepped away emotionaly, turned off her phone and answering machine and went to therapy. He left jail and went into a detox program. He even says that he knew if she came and bailed him out, his plan was to go buy more drugs. Detoxing in jail was no picnic for him, by the 12th day, he knew he needed and wanted rehab. Hang in there, stay stronge.
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