Rosemary,
Yes I have to agree with everyone. You need to do what makes you happy and stop kidding yourself. You are a person who has alot to give and when we feel taken advantaged of or ingnored by the person who is supposed to love us, then we need to take a step back.
I strongly agree with everyone that a list of pros and cons are needed. When you see it on paper they have an even more profound meaning. Don't get me wrong, no one is perfect, but this list open up your eyes to your situation and give you some insight on what your expactatons are. Not only of your partner but of yourself. My prayers are with you and I hope you keep posting. This is a great way of getting good input from people who really care,
LOTS & LOTS OF HUGS!!!
maryl
