|
He may just have to do that, go through it all. The courts, the rehab what ever he has to own up to, is his to own up to. My ex was in jail for 12 days, everyday he called his mother to bail him out, she stopped asnsering the phone and turned off her answering machine. He was yelling at her, blaming her, etc. etc. it was the hardest thing for her to do but she left him in jail, refused to bail him out. His mother and brothers had no intention of bailing him out and the attorny they hired along with the prosecutor asked to have his bail increased so none of his enablers could bail him out either. He detoxed in jail, then realized what he had done and became of remorseful he wanted to go into rehab. He could not beleive that he threatened me to the point where I needed to get a restraining order and he could not beleive he was talking to his mother the way he was. She told me, he's not the person we know and love right now, he's the addict. She hadn't seen the addict in so many years, I don't think it was something she though she would ever have to deal with again. She told me right from the begining, take care of you, worry about you and not what the future might hold because we don't know what's in the future for any of us. I miss her and I am going to send her a letter today. You keep being strong....
|