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Aristo · 06-18-2006, 07:35 PM

I hear you Mel - I am in a similar situation with my Ex. Everytime I come home, I expect to see her car in the driveway - But she is gone and that makes me sad.

My coucellor told me to get sober and I will realise that she wasn't right for me. I can't see that right now 100% - but it is getting there. I think I realise that if she truely loved me un-conditionally, as I did her, then she would still be around to support me and help me. So I guess (cause I have no way of knowing) that she either (a) Can't handle our situation and needs to do stuff for herself or (b) Doesn't really want to be with me.

It is very hard, I know.

My Advice - stop taking the pills - and seek help.

God bless.

06-18-2006, 07:35 PM	#3 (permalink)
Aristo Resentment Building Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney, NSW, Australia Posts: 174	I hear you Mel - I am in a similar situation with my Ex. Everytime I come home, I expect to see her car in the driveway - But she is gone and that makes me sad. My coucellor told me to get sober and I will realise that she wasn't right for me. I can't see that right now 100% - but it is getting there. I think I realise that if she truely loved me un-conditionally, as I did her, then she would still be around to support me and help me. So I guess (cause I have no way of knowing) that she either (a) Can't handle our situation and needs to do stuff for herself or (b) Doesn't really want to be with me. It is very hard, I know. My Advice - stop taking the pills - and seek help. God bless.