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Hey 2long, glad to hear from you and I am happy to know you are working a good programme.
In response to your query:
I believe not everybody at a meeting will be a good "carrier of the message" I believe some "carry more disease than message" however we all know that censoring is not possible at an AA meeting so in lieu of making backhanded comments like "their message is gonna kill the drunk" simply take reponsibility for being a good carrier of the message and share what you believe is the truth.
Instead of trying to "shame" the less articulate members of the group into shutting up (or worse, leaving) try leading by example instead.
Besides, a few tactful words outside after the meetings can go a far way in strengthening the group and letting every single member know that they are all an important part of the fellowship and have a part to play.
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