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Originally Posted by ilovebdj I usually post on F&F but didn't about this one. I really wanted a different perspective tonight. I really wanted to hear from the A's.
I know that I can't stop him....I just hate to see him this way. :-(
Thanks Kelly. I KNOW I should leave him alone.....hopefully I'll wise up and do just that. Thanks. |
Hi Cindy,
I know you're concerned. I'd probably think something was wrong if you weren't but until he's ready to quit, you're wasting your time worrying about him. I'd suggest that you leave him alone and take care of yourself. You might try Al-anon. I'm sure you'll get support there, and face 2 face is the best support there is. My wife and I had to let our son go when he was drinking and drugging. It was hard for us but we had plenty of support from AA which is our program. Our son is now almost 17 years sober. Some make it and some don't. You have no control and by being involved with him, you'll only hurt yourself. Best to you.