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Originally Posted by preciouz What the hell did i do?? what the hell am i doing wrong??? |
You did NOTHING wrong.
It can't be me so it must be you.... That is the thought of almost every one who is an alcoholic or addict. Denial has us blame anyone and every one but ourself. You happen to be the one who was around when the blame was being passed out. You didn't do anything wrong. You can't force another to drink and you can't force another to stop...no matter how many times another says you did it. You just can't.
As I read your post, I am seeing recovery all over the place. Understanding and knowing what is going on, acceptance of the situation is a starting place for finding answers.
You are in a drama at the moment but your recovery is working.
His drinking is his choice. His drinking is his doing. His problems are a result of his actions...You did nothing to cause it even if you were the most terrible person on earth you can't force another to drink. It is not your fault.