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xoducky, I think what everyone is telling you is that we all are very concerned about you and that we really want to be of assistance to you by being open to your questions, concerns, and to let you know that YOU are NOT the PROBLEM.
God your words brought bag awful memories of my mom saying those very things to me when I was a child, youth and teenager. It was extremely painful and I really empathize with you. Just know in your own heart that you are not the problem. You are a special person, just like all of us, and that your mom has issues that she needs to deal with.
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