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Welcome to SR Ducky.... Im sorry your hurting but very glad that you found SR....
Please Please do not own her problem, it sounds like she is hurting very much and is taking that out on the person close to her.... With Alcoholics there are the 3 Cs...
You did NOT CAUSE it, You CANT cure it and you CANT control it....
Please keep that in mind with everything when working with her.... You are not responsible for her drinking in anyway.
Im a daughter of an mother who was and Alcoholic, I sooooo understand how you feel, I was abused at her hand when she was drinking as well. I dont know why but it seems that it hurts much worse and has such lasting effects when its a parent. I have married and dated other Alcoholics but it has never been as hurtful as the things I went through with my Mom.
I would suggest you try to find an Al-teen meeting, I know being 14 it is not easy but I also know that it would help you alot. I waited WAY to long to get help with all I was living with and ended up with over 10 years of therphy to help correct my issues....
Im sooooo glad you posted and I look forward to getting to know you. I usually hang out in Family and Friends, if you want to pop over there sometime I can tell you there are alot of great folks that can help support you as well....
You are not alone anymore.
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