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I made a list of defects hundreds and hundreds of them.
it was hard enough as it was to be honest to myself and admitt
those traits or defects and put it on paper.
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I personally feel this is something that shouldn't be asked and has potential to be very damaging. I'm not saying that to have a go at AA, I'm saying it because I think it's ok for you to feel hurt and that it's ok for you to seek alternatives.
You're not alone, it doesn't mean you don't care about what happens next. It's OK to choose AA but it's also OK not to.
Satit - do you feel as though that's the only path for you or do you really want to seek something else? If you do feel it's the only path that'll work for you I reckon there's plenty of people who'll help you get through this and still use 12 steps. BUT if you want to look elsewhere there are also people here that will help and support you doing that.
You ARE worth it!!
Worth buckets and buckets to all of us!!!