Hey there!
I have ADD myself. The best thing that has helped me to understand it is this book called, "Delivered from Distraction". She may like to also. It's the first time I've seen some of the things I do, way I think, etc. actually put into writing. It was an amazing eye opener for me to read.
People really don't get how if affects you if they don't really know about it.
Look forward to seeing more of you.