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Originally Posted by bluebayou I've never been any closer to God than I have been in the last few months and I'm starting to wonder where God is now? I'm feeling very lost and lonely. |
My wife and I are both in AA and have been for some time. I know what it feels like to be in kind of a limbo, waiting for someone else to make the move. So don't wait. You know where your husband is, and you know where God is. Question is, where are you? Have you gone all this way hoping your husband would get better? Have you gone to Al-anon for your husband? Marriages are what they are but some work out and some don't. There's a possibility that the marriage was never supposed to be. Maybe you got married under false pretenses. So, you can also look at your situation as setting things right. Don't wait around for him to make the decision for you. Move on as if you're the only one who counts. Know why??? 'Cause you are!