Hi, Pony!
It sounds like you've really got your hands full!
And you are still dealing with pnemonia. You need to be careful. We don't want you having a relapse.
Your daughter's ex sounds like a real winner! You need to deal with this right now like you need a hole in the head!
Oh, and I understand about the eating thing. Man, I'm not doing well there either. Quitting smoking has made me go crazy there! And I get mad at myself too. But, it's a temporary thing...I hope...
Take care of yourself, Pony. And remember...chicken soup - the Jewish penicillin!
Shalom!