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**Alera** · 02-23-2006, 05:17 PM

One quick point, you can't be 33% of borderline. You need to meet the majority of the critera, and they need to be based on your thinking pattern. I know, my addict mother is a big-time BPD.

I see you have begun to use medications that are not prescribed to you. Your bf is starting to set you up to be an addict. Those are addictive pills, the ativan are. If you are to take any benzo, they need to be prescribed to you through your doctor.

I am shocked at the way he treats you when you are doing him the favor of holding his medication. My sister holds my pain medication and in recovery, I would never treat her like that. She is doing me a favor, not visa versa. She is not holding them to make her life easier, far from it as she needs to be home at certain times to give them to me. I know that and let her know how much I appreciate it. I make sure to tell her this at times when she in not giving me my medication, so she does not think it is my addiction talking.

If he plays games over that, you should not hold them. Do not do him the favor.

02-23-2006, 05:17 PM	#79 (permalink)
Alera A SMART Goth Forum Leader Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: SoCal Posts: 2,320	One quick point, you can't be 33% of borderline. You need to meet the majority of the critera, and they need to be based on your thinking pattern. I know, my addict mother is a big-time BPD. I see you have begun to use medications that are not prescribed to you. Your bf is starting to set you up to be an addict. Those are addictive pills, the ativan are. If you are to take any benzo, they need to be prescribed to you through your doctor. I am shocked at the way he treats you when you are doing him the favor of holding his medication. My sister holds my pain medication and in recovery, I would never treat her like that. She is doing me a favor, not visa versa. She is not holding them to make her life easier, far from it as she needs to be home at certain times to give them to me. I know that and let her know how much I appreciate it. I make sure to tell her this at times when she in not giving me my medication, so she does not think it is my addiction talking. If he plays games over that, you should not hold them. Do not do him the favor. __________________ Copyright © 2005 - 2009 Alera SR's SMART Goth Mod Proof that Secular Recovery works with religious beliefs. The addiction will protect itself ... AT ALL COSTS.