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Former guilty RC,here.....Yup i can relate.Difference between beating myself up,and looking to see where my own defects of character,that are getting in the way to my happiness,and in relationships with others.Nothing changes if i dont change.
Alcoholism is called the "family" disease.We all play our own part .Where ive added fule to the fires,where by my own thinking/actions made a bad situation,bigger and worse than it was to begin with.Looking into self,making healther choices in my life.I cant make healthier changes,if i dont look into my,own issues.Cant say enough good things about the Al-anon program.Many there are at different stages,in their recovery.Some like myself in my beginnings do struggle.Its hard at first learning a new way to live.But looking back i struggled more,one day at a time,when i just kept doing the same ole,same ole,and wasnt making changes in my life..Those who are living peacefully,effectivelly,those are the ones who you might ask to sponsor you.Keep an open mind.It works when ya work it.
keep on keeping on,
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