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Originally Posted by utopia DO people not heavily fantasise about picnics, dinners and trips, about passionate sex, deep conversations and a riveting union of love and unique understanding between two people that can even create life of its own? |
I guess it depends on if these fanacies ever come to fruition. Or maybe it depends on how tainted a person has become or, if they are living like this they don't need fantacy.
We who have the delima of dealing with addiction have been known to obsess about things like this and we want to make them our escape instead of our reality. If we can find away to put our passion into ourselves and give it to others in the form of our work and paly I think it puts us in more of a position to be loved. The more we allow ourseves to give and recieve love(not just sex)to and from people we maybe would not want to be sexual with I think it could help us to actract a relationship that contains the elements we are looking for because we are expressing our passion and by expressing we are creating a flow...you are worthy of giving and recieving love((((Utopia)))))