Gaz....
ummm....
Not to take your inventory.. but... relationship addict is popping into my head... ;o)
You have got to let those girls go... get better... and then try again.
Staying stuck with the mistakes of the past..
Do you really want to stay there with them..?
It done.. it's gone... and it's time to move on.
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walking in the park, bedroom sports, dinner, shopping, just doing all together!
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Those moments DO NOT define your life....
and if you would put as much energy into getting your life on track and putting that energy into YOU... then you would no doubt go on and do those very things with a person that will give them back to you..
But.. if you stay stuck where you are.... and refuse to consider that you need to get to be okay with yourself first before you can share yourself with another... then you won't get past this bad....
Neediness does not make a relationship... no matter how badly we want it to happen.
You gotta kick your own butt there buddy...
so.. tell me...
where are you with your drinking...??
Still on the taper off plan..?? going to meetings...??
Here's some light reading for you Gaz....
http://www.recovery-man.com/loveaddict.htm http://loveaddicts.org/