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Hi bbb welcome , and congrats on your sober time .
I am wondering if you have a sponser and are you working your steps?
My son, dil, and grandbabies, have been lost to me thru my drinking. I am now 2nm 1/2 years sober, have written my "ammends" and still have had no response at all from them. If I had not done a good 4th step, and talked to and listened to my Sponser, I would be in utter dispair over this. I have come to learn that i must accept what is , as long as I have "done the next right thing", and all that is humanly possible and right , then it is up to my HP. I have truly been able to et this go, in full confidence that when and if ther timing is right , for all of us , it will be resoved as it should be. Mind you , this solution may not be the one I would choose, but it will be the right one.
I learned that I had to focus on myself, and my own healing , to be of any use to anyone . I read here the other day, a wonderful quote , " do not try to force a conclusion" to mwe it said volumes
HUGX
Lee
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