Hey Lively...
We care.. ;o)
Glad ya came back to let us know what happened...
I'm not familiar with Paxil.. but.. I'm sure someone that is will respond at some point.
These are just some assorted links around anger/irritability.
http://www.pe2000.com/anger.htm http://www.twilightbridge.com/stress...erthecliff.htm http://www.coping.org/anger/content.htm
Understanding anger/irritability goes a long ways to helping stop it.
Making amends always helps me as well... for... even though I can't stop spewing my stuff sometimes... saying I'm sorry really takes the sting off for the other person... and it really helps me to try harder/do it differently.
In many cases.. it's simply something we are thinking or doing that is causing our psyche to slide off base.
Just keep workin..
it can only help.