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Hey gurl..
hmmm...
he's accusing you of no compassion....
lolol...
laughing my butt off here...
sounds more like a diversional tactic...
get Splendra on the defensive... ;o)
I know for myself today .. that....
I have compassion for Stormy.. yeah...
but.. I have compassion for me first...
and things are much fairer here now...
cause I believe I'm much more honest about my motives than he is.. ;o)
yeah...
I'm learning to take as many steps back as I need to .. to avoid being caught up in the addictive BS that exists in my world...
and it's not even tied to the person so much anymore...
I jsut look at them as an addict.. doing their addict dance.. dangling in the addict breeze...
and I have found that lets me love the person underneath...
and be clearer about them... and what is happening between us.
I'm engaging the person.. and ignoring the addict...
or trying anyway.. ;o)
so...
my suggestion to you is that you keep focusing on the real...
and tell your honey that your into compassion for yourself first...
and don't you ever need to ... being connected to his sorry a$$... lolol....
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